It's better to get married with people who love each other

in onionrings3 years ago

Can two people marry without emotion? Certainly.

In fact, whether you like one person, one person doesn't like you, it is a person like you, you don't like one person, or you two people do not like each other, as long as you like, you can also enter marriage.

In real life, there is not much emotion between each other, but still choose to marry people, which is never in a few.

Many things, it doesn't matter whether it is good or not, but whether they want to.
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However, although not love, still can form a family, but it will not look so good after all.

Marriage is a matter of choosing someone who loves each other if you can, or better.

You can only be willing to like each other.

Marriage, which was a big joy, but in reality, I often met some friends, they were going to marry, but I was not happy at all, and I was still struggling and struggling.

Even if it was to the day before marriage, the day of marriage, still have some reluctant.

After all, it is still because the person in front of us is not what he really wants, and it is not his wish to join hands for a lifetime.

When that person, you don't like it at all, you don't love each other at all. For some other reasons, you will still choose to marry. But your heart will always have five flavors and it is very uncomfortable.

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And that mood will not only affect your present, even after marriage, you may still still have a difficult time. With that person, you will always feel very aggrieved and regret when you think of yourself as being a will.

Feeling is something that, out of reason, you can let yourself and dislike people together, but only if you really love someone, that person also loves you, you can stand proudly by his side and walk through the red carpet with him.

It is the person who likes it, and it doesn't feel sorry.

Why people want to marry, for this issue, many people seem to have not thought about it, just watch others choose to marry, then they choose, even if that person, is not what they want.

To say, it is not difficult to find someone to marry. But if you have not loved them well, you have never chosen a person who really wants to marry. Then in the years to come, you will inevitably not be willing.

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At that time, in the eyes of others, you did take a path that the public chose, life seemed to be perfect, but you know that, from the moment of marriage, your life seems to have been in a pause.

Because you seem to be in love and married, but you have never experienced seeing a person feeling heart, never experienced the tossing and thinking of a person, never experienced to a person everything concern.

Have not felt the true love, have no such opportunity again, hurry for a half life, you can not remember what is beautiful, also did not leave any memories, years or may be quiet, but also will appear very blank.

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This blank, in the years to come, you will no longer fill back, but also will be more and more feel should not.

Love each other, can more tolerant.

I believe everyone has found that in this era, divorce is very straightforward.

Men, women, a person can easily choose divorce, because everyone has their own temper, and also because who has the capital to leave another person.

If you are independent and can still live well without relying on each other, you will want to go there at first, but at the end, you are basically nobody willing to bow down.

You will feel that, with what you want to let each other, by what is their own accommodation, finally, you do not let each other, and will not see the separation so important, only easily choose to break up, choose divorce.

If you love each other, you have a certain emotional foundation, it is different. Because love, too many times, although you will also have conflicts, you will not let the contradiction continue, will be willing to compromise, will be willing to understand each other.

For feelings, only if you are willing to move and tolerate each other, can you live better. Your feelings can last longer.

Marriage, you have better have a certain emotional foundation, you better love each other.

When you love each other, you will have a good memory, you will not always have other thoughts, you will be more loyal to the present.

At that time, when you enter marriage, it's easier for you to work together to make life better.

In your life, you should never marry just for marriage. Then in marriage, you become a poor man without soul. You can wait until you meet the person you like. You really want to live with him for a lifetime, and then enter into the marriage with him.

Although no matter how much love, your feelings will only be plain, but love, always better than never felt.

Love sweet, that may be short, but also enough to give you some support later.

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