This is a kind of advanced wisdom and soft power

Do you have such people around you? They may not be amazing or outstanding, but they have a different charm, which makes you want to get close to them, put down your guard and confide in your heart.

They make you feel comfortable. Being with such people is like listening to a soothing music, tasting a cup of mellow hot tea, watching a flower open quietly, and making time as quiet as water.

Comfortable, is the top personality charm.

A gentleman is like a jade. A comfortable person is like a piece of jade. Comfortable is not a temporary flattery, such a person can only make people tired.

People who are comfortable must be considerate and compassionate. Their charm comes from the rich, introverted, warm, kind, from the inside out to send out a noble.

Some people will always embarrass people everywhere to show their personality as their true temperament, and show their superiority by suppressing others.

At first glance, such a person seems to have an open personality, but it's hard to get a sincere friend. Sincerity and frankness are advantages, but the premise is respect and understanding for others.

Comfortable people must be delicate and smart. They are reasonable in their work and proper in their speech. Maybe it's just a look and action that can make you feel the warmth of the world.

They can speak every word to your heart, overcome hardness with softness, and solve problems in silence. Making people comfortable is a necessary condition for the further development of friendship between two people. Only by making others feel comfortable, can others talk with them and further contact with them without pressure, and show their all in their gentle spring breeze.

This is a kind of advanced wisdom and soft power.

Some people may think that this kind of high EQ is hypocritical and tactful, but in fact, the so-called high EQ is not only know how to get along, but also know how to get along with people!

EQ is not a formula, but to train you to have a skilled mind and routine, is to let us understand the real way to get along!

The most advanced cultivation rule of EQ is to cultivate a heart of respect, understanding, openness and tolerance.