Why doesn't she love me?

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 At some point in life, people have an unrequited love, that is, we want someone who does not love us in the same way or who does not appreciate us. Having an unrequited love can create an obsession that is not healthy at all, and you may feel an emptiness inside, maybe you do not concentrate on studies or work, you may think about her all day and you can even get there to get depressed! 

 Maybe many people find it silly that someone suffers from an unrequited love, or they will say "There are more women in the world" (that's true) but everyone heals in due time and everyone has to live their own experience.

 1) Accept that she doesn't love you in the same way that you love her, and that's not why it's wrong ... you have feelings for her and that's fine, but she has no feelings towards you and that's ALSO GOOD ... Remember that no one is obligated to love you or accept your love, love is not forced love feels, and if someone doesn't feel it is simply not for you.

 2) Analyze well why you like her, and try to discover if it is just a physical attraction, a sentimental attraction, or simply an obsession because it is someone you can't have.

Human beings are complicated, we want what we can not have and what we can have we do not want it ... try to really define if she likes you, and if that has her, you can get it in any other woman who is worth it.

 3) Imagine and accept your life without her being included (at least sentimentally).

If the girl you like is a friend then you should keep their friendship, but of course you should take your time to get away from her and heal your pain, but after that, you should continue with your friendship.

If it is not a friend but a common girl because imagine your life without her, and you will realize that it is not so bad eh!

 4) Distract yourself, live your life, have a corresponded love can be just as painful as a dislike for breaking a relationship, so do not get depressed boy, come out, have fun, go out with your friends, go to parties, go out cinema, dance, do some sport, do whatever you want but enjoy AND FORGET her, there are many good things in the world that you can take advantage of.

 
5) You must remember that the fact that she does not love you does not mean that there is something wrong with you ok? YOU ARE PERFECT, she is perfect, we are all perfect with different realities and different tastes !! That doesn't mean there is something wrong with either of you.  Don't blame her or hate her, she doesn't rule over your feelings like you can not send in yours. 

 Stop asking yourself why she does not love you, and start asking you how it really affects me that she doesn't love me?

Stop looking for love, he appears when you are least looking for it, a person will come who will be made for you, and will love you and your faults and your virtues, without buts and without conditions, and there you will laugh at your self from the past and you will say: I don't know why I was sad for her ...

Regards!!