Steemit Engagement Challenge S3:W4 - Three things I'd change about myself, and three things I'd keep by @steemdoctor1 | #burnsteem25 | Club100
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Welcome to the post. I hope that all of you will be good and happy and enjoying your precious health with the grace and blessing of Almighty Allah. Today, I am going to participate in theSteemit Engagement Week 04 of Season 3. My this publication is actually in the Steem India community and the topic of discussion for this week Three things that You would like to Change and Keep in yourself. So, let's start tye discussion without any wastage of time.
Life is the name of changing. There are different circumstances in our life when we have to change our different habits and behaviours that we have already developed in ourselves from the childhood or any other part of the life. In the progressive series of changing, that is actually as life, there are some things that we love or like within ourselves while on the other hand there are such things that we hate to have within us.
Actually the same is the case with me. There are so many habits and behaviours of me that I would like to never change while the otherwise are also the present that I always try to change within me. So I have discussed the things that I would like to change in myself and also the other things that I would never like to change in myself. These things are discussed below in the form of different points.
Things I would Never Like to Change
The things that I would like to keep with me for the long time in my life a discussed below.
The first and the most important thing that I would like to mention here is that I am a strong believer of the narration "Never Judge a Book By its Cover". I am a reality lover person and I also believe those things that are approved me my through my own research or experience. I never underestimate the minor creatures or anything. Fir example, many people think that insects are minor creatures and hate them but I like the benefits that the insects give to the human life. Also, I never predict the things by my own without any knowledge of it.
There are so many examples in the history that those people who were never suppose to do anything, did great and glorious jobs. I have a nature of accepting the things after the complete verification about them and I think this is the most important character of my personality. There are so many people that accept the waste talks of others without doing any research or verification about those things and when they came to know about the actual facts, they become amazed and sometime worried as well. So, I would never even thought to change this nature.
Another important thing that I would never like to change in myself is the faithfulness towards every matter of my life. Faithfulness is actually a very impressive character of a living being and I feel proud to have this character in me. Trust me, if we talk about the friendship then I would like to say that I never thought a single bit against the interest and liking of my friends. I try my best to be loyal to them and I think I have been successful in this matter to a great extent.
I would like to share with all of you that it is a my nature to never think any negative thing about my friends. Also, I am very much faithful to all the family members, as well as, to all the people that are attached to me. I am thankful to all the people that are linked to me. So, this is the second thing that I would never like to change in myself.
The third and the last thing that I will never change in myself is the Self Confidence. Self confidence is actually thing that makes a man stick to their deeds irrespective of the reactions and reviews of others on their matters. I feel proud to have this character in myself.
A man without self confidence is like that who is going on at a road without any destination and he is making is very according to the signals of others. So I would never like to change my this character as self confidence is very important to give your desires and goals.
Things That I would Like to Change
The changing that I would like in myself are given below in the form of different points.
It is a fact that technology is acting the lives of today people. But we know that the overuse of everything is bad so the same case is with the overuse of technology. It is a truth that I spend most of my day time with the use of technology and various devices. Moreover, two or three years have passed by using the mobile and laptop all the time. So, now a habit has developed in my life that I could not live a day without using technological devices less than fourteen to fifteen hours a whole day.
This overuse of technological devices may lead to various physical as well as mental issues. The first issue is that the use of mobiles and other devices have made me a very busy person that I have no time to pay attention to the natural beauty. Also, I have no time to spend some fun moments with my siblings and other family members. That's why, I would like to change my this habit and I have already started remove this habit from me. I hope that I will succeed very soon.
Another important change that I would like to see in myself is patience and calmity. I am a very aggressive and impatient individual now and my this habit has lead to various serious issues for me. When I start predicting something, then I always like to see that thing happening in the same way which I was expecting. Impatience and aggressiveness are the things that always make a man stressful of the dealings that he is doing with various matters.
The impatience nature of mine has already harmed me in various ways. It has also lead me many times to take wrong decisions that are actually prove to be wrong in the future. During trading, sometimes, I become as impatient that I make wrong decisions in the market that lead towards huge loses. I would like to change this habit as I know that the decisions that are taken in calm and patience are much more effective than those that are taken in hurry.
When we are doing something valuable and sensitive then we have to pay the whole of our attention towards that work. If we pay less focus on the work and other activities are exceeding the working then we should have to take necessary consideration on ourselves. It is a fact that when I am doing something then I could not pay my hundred percent attention to that work and most of my focus is diverted towards other jobs.
For example, when I was creating a blog on Steemit and suddenly I came to know that today was the cricket match of our International team, so I left my post at the same time and switch on the TV to watch the match. Another example is that I was doing a very important assignment but then suddenly I remembered that I have to sharpen my all pencils. So, I started sharpening them one by one and in this way my attention or focus is diverted. So, I would like to change this habit as well.
Conclusions
Changing are the part of the life and there are certain circumstances in our lives that make us ready to change various things in our lives. There are somethings that I will surely like to change in my life such as Impatience, Wastage of Time, Over technology use. Also there are some things that I would never like to change in myself and these things are including my honest and passionate nature towards my goals, my faithfulness for the friends and other people who are linked with me, and predicting the things after complete sense and knowing.
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Writer: @steemdoctor1
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Thanks a lot brother for your precious and valuable words
My dear friend you told us such a great thing that must be imply and change in ourself. Yes, the over use of technology is really very bad and it is very harmful for our health. Thank you for inviting me. InshAllah I will surely take part in this contest soon.
So much thankful to you for your this precious comment.
These changes will he helpful if you manage to overcome in great way otherwise these will hurt you a lot. For example excess use of technology including mobile phone and laptop can make you eyesight more week and also headache so be careful and thanks again for your creative post
Yes brother surely these changings will improve my life. Thanks a lot for your precious comment.
Saludos amigo.
Nunca juzgar un libro por su portada es algo que nos enseñan desde niños y que nunca debemos olvidar. Lo importante es lo que somos por dentro, nuestra actitud y personalidad. Que bueno que seas una persona de esa naturaleza.
El sobre uso de la tecnología es algo que todos hemos padecido. Cuando yo era más joven me encantaba estar todo el día jugando en la PC, ya con el tiempo lo dejé y puse límites.
Linda entrada al desafío, éxitos.
Thanks a lot for your precious and appreciated words.
Great saying about the cover of book 📔 there's nothing like to know first the personality of person because we don't really know the reasons about the behavior indeed friend. Nice publication. Good luck with the contest.
Thank you very much.
If you are in battle or worst situation and you have self confidence so you are won half battle before start battle.
Yes bro you are very right. Thanks a lot for your precious comment.