Hmm, okay, after reading all you have said, I can see that you are comfortable with the way things are, there are somuch benefits, so I would say you should go with option 6. Your wife should keep working, while you grow quality content here on steemit. With that, you can I'll remain at home to spend more time with your daughter.
You got it right. So yea we basically are going with #6 because like you said there are more benefits overall with that option. It's been hard though but It's really worth it and things are starting to smooth out for now.