Week 10- 👉 "Your Story , Your Laughter or Your Cry (•ิ‿•ิ) (Let's Share my story With Each Other)"
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Week #10 begins "Your Story , Your Laughter or Your Cry" (Let's Share With Each Other) hosted by @moyeon in Steem Kids & Parents
I want To tell my story, There is sadness as well as happiness in this story of mine and there is also the truth of life.
I will have to look into the past, at the very beginning of this story you will be surprised that I was only 18 years old and I was only in the first year of graduation.
Then, under some special circumstances, I put pressure on my parents and married a girl whom I neither knew nor recognized before, nor had I ever seen her.
Actually What happened was that the girl was going to get married to someone else and just 2 days before the marriage, the girl's groom had refused to marry her.
And coincidentally, I was also invited to this wedding, and I had a deep connection with this girl's family. When I went to meet them at their house two days before the wedding, everyone's faces were sad, whereas there should have been happiness.
After I asked a lot, the girl's family told me the truth, I was also very sad to hear this and I went home and told all this to my mother, and told her that I wanted to marry that girl.
My mother was shocked to hear my words because at that time my two elder brothers were unmarried and I was almost the youngest in the house. And in those days, any marriage in our family was done only after the child turned 22-23 years old.
But I was adamant and told my mother to convince me even if he was my father. Seeing my stubbornness, my mother talked to my father. My father was also shocked at what I said and protested.
It was not easy to convince him. Then I presented my side till 2 o'clock in the night, when my father accepted my point with some conditions. Then at 2-30 in the night my father, my mother and my elder sister reached the girl's house and told them my wish.
They all were shocked to hear my decision, but after discussion till morning, the matter was resolved. And thus I became the reason for the happiness of a crying family.
And two days later, we got married in the daytime in the presence of only 11-12 people without any transaction, whereas in our Agarwal community there is a lot of transaction in marriages.
[My own photo]
On the day of marriage, I came to know for the first time that my wife's height is 1 foot 5 inches less than me, my height is 6 feet 2 inches and her height is 4 feet 9 inches around . A friend of mine also attended my wedding. He made fun of me and said that this is the wedding of Lambu [long] and Short [small].
Then I explained to him by saying that brother, the smaller the problem (wife), the better it is.
And that problem means that my wife and I have been living a happy life for the last 40-41 years.
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greetings friend,
Wow. You left so many old pictures. If so this picture is definitely from your special day.
But I am very impressed that you mentioned your height and your wife's height in the post. You are very tall indeed.
Compared to that I think your wife's height is fine.
Because the height of girls in the Asian continent is of this type.
All the best for the competition.
Hello my learned friend,
You are right that the height of the girls of Asian continent is less, but now the beauty and height of the girls of our and your country is increasing, now the earlier myths are changing.
But in my case the matter was different, I have written that neither I had seen her before nor thought anything about it,
With respect and honor.
Thanks mate, I understand your point. You are correct. The myth has now changed. Nowadays there are many tall girls around us. Wishing you all the best.
Greetings, friend,
I am very pleased with your agreement with my statement, and by the way, you yourself are one of those beautiful girls, from Asia sub continent.
Thank you Kind regards.
Beautiful post. What you did for the Lady was amazing not everyone would have the courage to and it is a beautiful thing it all turned out well
Thank you my new friend, you are truly like a divine soul, your name is so perfect.
with respect.
Thank you
आपके जैसे लड़के खुद भगवान होते हैं। मैं भरोसा भी नहीं कर सकती कि ऐसे लड़के भी होते हैं। इस दुनिया में जो इतनी कम उम्र में किसी लड़की के लिए उसको बिना जाने, बिना देखे, उसके दर्द को समझें और लड़ जाए अपनों से।
उसे पर भी आपको उनके सूरत वगैरा से फर्क नहीं पड़ा।आपने उन्हें प्यार किया और उन्होंने आपको.आजकल तो लड़के use and throw करते हैं पर उसमें आप जैसे लड़के मेरा लड़कों पर भरोसा बढ़ाते हैं।अच्छा हुआ जो उन्हें वह लड़का छोड़कर चला गया, वरना आप जैसा लड़का उन्हें नहीं मिलता। आपने यह समझ की लड़की में प्रॉब्लम नहीं थी।इस समाज में हर चीज के लिए लड़कियों को ही कसूरवार ठहराया जाता है।
पर आपने उसके परे उठकर सोचा।इतनी कम उम्र में शादी करके भी करियर में इतने सक्सेसफुल बने आप वाकई behind a successful man is a loving woman . मैं दुआ करती हूं कि मुझे भी लाइफ में आप जैसे लड़के मिले चाहे वह जो भी रिश्ता हो, मेरा सामना हो तो ऐसे लड़कों से ही हो जिनका मैं खुद सम्मान कर सकूं। अभी मैं बहुत कुछ कहना चाहती हूं। पर यह कमेंट बॉक्स छोटा पड़ जाएगा।
अपनी कहानी साझा करने के लिए शुक्रिया।
नमस्ते मेरी छोटी दोस्त और प्रतियोगिता की आयोजक महोदया,
इसमें कोई शक नहीं की मैंने अपने ससुराल पक्ष में और मेरे अपने समाज में भी एक हीरो का दर्जा प्राप्त कर लिया था और मेरा जीवन बहुत सुखी रहा, इसके अलावा तुमको एक और बात बतानी हे की मेरी ससुराल आर्थिक रूप से सक्षम नहीं थी , इसलिलिये मैंने अपनी ३ सालियों को और एक साले को अपने बच्चों की तरह माना और पढ़ाया लिखाया उनकी शादियों में मदद की। और इसके बाद मेरी एक पोस्ट
https://steemit.com/hive-139765/@sur-riti/sec17-wk-5-caring-for-aged-and-dependent-relatives-in-the-family
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