Be a good person

Everyone wants to change for the better. However, most of them do not know how to be a good person. All the time, I often look in the mirror and try to figure out what I can do to become a better person. Not only that, I also want to achieve something great and leave a good impression and footprint on this world. Setting aside a little time each day to reflect on all the good and the bad things I have done, gives me the opportunity to grow and develop.

For those of you who want to be someone better, there are several ways to be a good person:

• intention changed

To be a better person, you must be willing to change. Change is the only way to move forward and grow so that you will be what you want to be. Not a few people who resist change or are reluctant to change so that their development into a better person feels a bit more difficult. But if you keep thinking openly and willing to change, sooner or later you will become a better person the way you want to be.

• not many reasons

When I started business when in high school, I tried to make excuses for everything that went wrong, like a problem for example. I often blame others, look for scapegoats, or even blame others who are not involved. And for sure, I will try not to blame myself for the problems I face. But I was conscious and started learning to take responsibility for the mistakes I made because it was so important. I started to stop making excuses and was really responsible and regarded it as my own fault.

• not selfish

Not a few people who allow anger or emotion to control and change their skills in making decisions. Many of us grow and develop into emotional people, so it is very detrimental and even can damage relationships with the people closest. Not only that, emotion is sure to cause high blood pressure.

• forgiving

Being forgiving is not easy. But forgive someone who ever hurt you, although very difficult but of course can be done. And forgiving, it has a significant effect on our change and development to become a better and wiser one. Often we hold a grudge against someone who has ever hurt, the grudge is really very harmful, causing us difficult to become a better person. We must learn that human beings tend to make mistakes often. So, instead of grudging with the mistakes that people make against us, it helps us to forgive the person. By being forgiving, you will be easier to become more mature.

Honest

it's hard to find honest people right now. However, honesty is the best medicine to deal with every situation. You can promise yourself not to say something that contains a lie.
You can challenge yourself to be honest because this habit will make you grow into a more mature, kind and charismatic person. If you've been lying or at least lying once a day, try to force (coach) yourself completely in one full day. After that you can increase it to be: honest two days, three days, and so on until you really become a whole person completely. Soon you will feel the effect of an honesty.

What do you think...???