How to save a marriage

in #psychology7 years ago

When the love couple is covered by the euphoria of passion, everything else loses its meaning. Partners are completely captivated by experiences, sexual attraction and euphoria. This period is an instinctive manifestation of its best qualities. In this case, one should not forget about the flow of time, which can change even the most idyllic relations. Gradually comes pacification in family life and couples settle at home, forgetting about noisy companies and choosing a home cosiness. Here it is important to take into account that gradually there will be problems, which should be prepared morally:

As soon as the euphoria of preparation for the wedding will pass, and it will be left behind, immediately there will be claims to each other and occasions for quarrels. The most important thing is to choose a couple with the same life attitudes and principles, and petty quarrels are unlikely to destroy the marriage.

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Of course, the wife should look good all the time, but at the same time she needs to remember that any man prefers to have coziness in the house. If there is not always a delicious dinner, it's unlikely that the stunning appearance of his wife will be able to constantly replace him.
Another extreme - a spouse who prefers all business and hobbies, exclusively cleaning and cooking. An active man wants to see next to a woman who is able to share his interests and support the conversation.
It must be accepted as a fact that in a marriage, none of the partners owe anything to each other. Joint living should be perceived as a gift of fate, because the two are much better than singly. The birth of children, common interests, the provision of material wealth to the family - all these moments need to be done at will, and not from under the stick. Only then will the relationship be properly built and the marriage will be happy.
Over the years, the interests and goals of the spouses change. This is a normal and natural process. It is necessary to correctly perceive the changes and not lose the opportunity to fully communicate with each other. Life in marriage is a big job and in order that love does not become a routine, and later does not flow into boredom, you need to maintain emotional contact with a partner.

The main habit in marriage should become a habit of simply loving one another.