Things to avoid from family breakdown
Good evening Ghanaian friends...
How are you today, I hope you are doing well, and I hope you will continue to be enthusiastic in every activity today, Thank you very much for friends who have supported me here and hopefully this community will continue to grow and will be better in the future.
In my latest post, I will write a story in a story about some of the worst things to avoid in the family because this is a lot of families don't pay attention to it, so this is what triggers the destruction of a family which sometimes seems to be broken.
Family couples, naturally will experience problems slowly over time and also the ignorance of fatal things that make a household break up, then this is the main factor for every family to fall apart.
Then what should be avoided so that the family is far from being destroyed, here is my review.
Many of us after marriage, married couples who do not respect their husbands, the reasons are of course various, but the wife does not realize that she is not the leader in the household, and sometimes she always wants to be in front and always hopes that her words will be carried out. this kind of wife is owned in a family until whenever there is no peace in a household, because a good or bad household is still under the control of the husband, if in the family there are two leaders then who will be the one to lead, this is what keeps triggering fights .
So for the wife, there is no right to lead the household, everything remains on the instructions of her husband, and the wife's duty is to respect the husband's decision, not to be a dissident.
The fastest thing that becomes a problem is when a wife who likes to be rebellious and also betrays her husband, then the family relationship will crack more quickly, in fact we see a lot of people in the wife's household who want to arbitrarily without respecting her husband, travel without the husband's knowledge, even spend shopping without calculation at all.
Of course the husband will think that the wife who does everything as she pleases certainly does not respect her, then what is her function and what are the provisions of a wife in the household, so that the husband will think that it is better to divorce than to make a headache.
What most women like most is shopping, sometimes what she spends is categorized as not so important, but this is the nature of women who have high lust, so that if a wife has a material nature, it will make the household not develop because of a lot of money. who runs out of shopping that is not needed, then avoid a wife who has a material nature and has money in her eyes.
The family is a unity in wholeness and lives life with children, and everything that is sought will certainly be shared, it will also be enjoyed together, thus for couples it is not justified to take sides and take sides in things and needs, I give an example here that is
For example, if there is a property that is jointly owned, but the wife claims that it is hers with the hope of being privately owned, it is a big mistake in a family and will actually cause an inner conflict that is unexpected and felt, and over time it will be able to cause new problems automatically. unaware.
That's all friends, for some things that must be considered in order to avoid problems in the family, especially in today's modern era of course the knowledge of partners is very low, so save our family for a better future for our children
Regards
@ustazkarim
These are great lessons that could help us in our future marriage life. Thanks for sharing it with us.