There are more tomorrow but don't stop working hard

in #life7 years ago

In the upcoming days, we will eventually go on for a long journey, eventually will need to say goodbye to our immature self.

Perhaps the journey is a bit difficult, a little lonely, but through the pain, so that we can grow.

Hope you can become what you want to be, do not embarrass of yourself, and also do not disappoint all those years.


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When I was in college, I had a good friend who always complains about his life. He said that recently he doesn’t know what is happening to him, started to be decadent, want to change but there is a powerless feeling to change.

In fact, he said, before going to bed every Sunday night, he had decided that the new week would start working with a new posture, but the next day, sitting in his desk, flooded with trifles. After work, he will also comfort himself, maybe start tomorrow, because today is really too busy.

He also decided to make good use of the time after work to recharge himself and constantly to improve his skills. However, every time he goes back home on a crowded bus, he has already become powerless, and tell himself relax a day first, start again tomorrow.

He asked me, have you ever experienced such a situation?

Of course, I believe everyone will go through this kind of situation; the problem is just either more or less.

Take my university life as an example; I always feel that graduation is still far away from me. When it was the last year in university, a lot of people will sigh: “I should have study hard and take part in the club, so that I can enrich myself.”

However, in the end, found out that we are actually wasting time.


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I remember when I was a child, almost every day, I hear my brother said again and again: "tomorrow after tomorrow, too many tomorrows, if I always wait for tomorrow, I will never accomplish anything." In fact, at that time, I have no idea what he is talking about.

When I was a teenager, I often heard the adults talk about the time is precious, but then they are also uppity. Never understand why the adults are busy every day, seems to have been chasing something and racing with something that I do not understand.

And for me, I only know that every day if children are playing with me, I will feel very happy, this is childhood.

Later, when started primary school, also began to get in contact the text, poetry, article, and also started to say to word that my brother always said.

However, when I grew up, I found out that I was just following someone else, but I didn't know what those words mean.

On one side, carefully say we to cherish the time, while on the other side wasting our youth.

At that time, I believe that there is always tomorrow, and ignore a lot of things around me.

Because I believe there will be tomorrow, those people who I missed, the things that I missed, in the silhouette of the time, slowly forgotten and become a small trivial memory fragment.

Because I believe there is tomorrow, it is difficult to cherish today's time; many things can be pushed to tomorrow.

Especially that year when I was in high school, there is a period, the only thing I wanted to do is to look forward to the next night at the dormitory, after cleaning myself, lie in bed watching the video, playing mobile phone, or Facebook ...

Even if a few roommates in the dormitory often come back to bed at 12 o'clock, I have no anxiety. Instead, I comforted myself to get up early to study tomorrow morning. In the end, my results become worse and worse.


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I have a friend who is the typical guy who says he wants to lose weight and restrain his diet, but always make excuses for starting tomorrow.

This is the last time to overeat. But every time I see food, it was time to eat and drink and forgot everything about losing weight.

God, I swear, this will be the last good meal today, I will start tomorrow. And then he ate "the last good meal" for almost a month.

The exam is over, suddenly feel so empty, feel like going to die if don’t eat something, tomorrow must lose weight. And then the whole semester he feels empty and eats for the whole semester.

Every time I meet him, he always asks me when I have the time to buy him food.

Suddenly one day, I don't know what's hit him, he just talked to me. He said when he was walking on the road today; he feels countless eyes watching him in the back ...

Then, I said to him, but if there really is no tomorrow, I think we should not hesitate.

In fact, more or less I can understand his feeling, he has the determination to change, but day and night watching the time and money flow away like white light, lamented the following days and continue to live the old days.

At this time, we began to question our efforts, to question what we do, when the gap began to be pulled apart gradually, we are still in a dazed confusion, may be distressed for a while, may be confused for life.


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Last year, there is a very popular question:” When you go to college at the age of 18, people asked you what is your dream? And you say travel around the world."

At the age of 22, graduated from college, you said you'd find a job and then go travel.

At the age of 26, your job is stable, you said will decide later after buying a house.

At the age of 30, you have a car, have a house, you said wait until you get married, take your wife with you.

At the age of 35, you have a child; you say wait for the child grow older.

At the age of 40, your child has grown up; you say you need to take care of your parents.

But in the end, you didn't go anywhere.

It is true; I often go out now, someone will tell me that you can go when you are older. But why do I have to wait until I am 60 to do it when I can do it when I am more than 20 years old?

The real hero is the one who pursues what he wants. In fact, the most difficult to become such a hero is not the pursuit of perseverance, but the ability to find the real needs of our own hearts.

I go out is not because I’m confused, but I know what I want to live, know what I like, and that's it.

I always believe that everything I experienced in my youth will be the way of my future.

What I want to say is that if I really know what I'm going to do, I know it feels warmer to curl up in bed, but I still need to get up early in the morning. Knowing lose weight is not easy, but still will strictly follow the plan. Know that if we don’t do anything will be more relaxed, but still choose to chase dreams.

This is life, and everyone has to keep going.

In fact, a lot of times, we always think of a better future, but do not understand the good is always in the present.

Perhaps we always give in, so we have no dream to pursue it.

None of us have much time that can easily be wasted.

Besides, tomorrow and the accident, how do we know which will comes first?

All you have to do is try to live in fullness each day and leave the rest to time.

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Great post and true, people who are saying tomorrow, there is a question for them, how they know they have a tomorrow. Time is not in your hand your thoughts and actions are in your control, so live in the moment and enjoy your life everyday.

Thanks for sharing great post.

Have a great day.

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