The most failed family education: mother is strong, father is absent, have you been recruited

In real life, how many children are ultimately "dual-faced" because of the strong control of their mothers: on the one hand, they are well-behaved and sensible, with excellent grades; on the other hand, they are struggling and on the verge of collapse.

We thought we were loving children, but in fact, the control in the name of love turned into a bitter fruit in the child’s fate and permeated every corner of the child’s life.

The absence of the father will bring more harm to the child: emotional disorder, lack of rational power, poor interpersonal relationships, lack of self-confidence, no purpose in life, full of anxiety and loneliness...
For children, the father is a role model, able to teach children how to be a mature adult, how to have the courage to bear the character and all solid and beautiful qualities.

God gave you an absent father, he would give you an anxious mother, and eventually he would raise an out of control child. Therefore, the healthy growth of a child is inseparable from the mother's nature and sensibility, and it is also inseparable from the father's society and rationality.

Perhaps the reality of life prevents us from being comprehensive. If we want to give our children a good life, we don’t have time to spend time with them. If we want to spend time with them, we can’t give them everything they want, and even the toys they like can’t be bought.