One wise man once told me that most of the people in the world are afraid to make decisions and just live their floats through the lives without ever stepping up. "And that's the worst decision a human-baing can make," he added.

If you are afraid to make decisions when someone else will do it for you... and you won't like it.

I am always fascinated to see people being afraid of some drastic changes. "I would love to do it but [insert shitty excuse here]," they keep repeating. What are the most popular decisions that people have to make? I can think of two - with whom to create a family and what to do for a living. I bet that we all had thoughts about those questions.

Imagine a person who is in the toxic relationship but cannot end it because he is afraid of things that might or might not happen. I bet it is easy to do think of such person because at least 80 percent of relationships are like that according to a research made by the Harvard scientists. Another research showed that when a person supports his arguments with random research made by unexisting scientists, that person usually makes it all up. Anyway, what I wanted to say was:

A lot of people have this ugly fetish to hurt themselves by being afraid to stand for themselves.

And the more I think, the less sorry I feel for people who cannot make their own decisions. Those people choose to stay in an environment that slowly killing them instead of standing up and going through the doors to some new beginnings. Those people blame everyone for their misery and pain, but don't seem to grasp the idea that it is them who cannot make even the simplest decision.

It is always hard to change, especially when it is for the better. That's human nature I guess.

I have made my fair share of decisions lately and I can say that I have never felt better in my life than now. However, to make some of the decisions, which meant getting rid of some beautiful delusions and comfort, was the hardest task in my life. I did it and now I am happy. I wish I could know how to tell people to listen to their deepest thoughts and not be afraid to act accordingly. After all, we always face consequences for our actions, so why not make those actions worthwhile to remember? The only bad decision is to avoid making one. So don't do it, please!