Life, Perfection, expectations oh well.........

Heya,

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Understanding human psychology is really an art. I believe and I'll admit that we all human have one problem. I'd say out of many problem there we have one more problem you can say an additional one. An additional because it is a self-created problem It shouldn't be a problem but it is because we have created this for ourself. I don't understand why we are making our lives more complex by thinking about such things. We always want comfort from life. I don't know about others but i guess i am writing this blog for myself. I am reminding myself, Zee, you can't expect ease from life. Get out of that fantasy world you have imagined. I always have this wondrous vision about life if i have this plan it should go as per my plan. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't but when it doesn't I give up. I am always aiming to do bigger things but always forget that for that i have to pay price. And yes its a life and it goes like that and its actually fine.

I always forget that Life is another name of test and trials. And I shouldn't forget this that tests and trials are never supposed to be easy
Ah yes, i want to share this thought with an example.

And I actually want to highlight this line.

What happens when we expect ease from life

When i and you expect ease from life then life gives us lemons and its entirely up to us either we keep these lemons or make lemonade from them. But if we make lemonade then we shouldn't blame life. Because we were expecting something else and again we forgot trial can never be easy. Our tests and trial make us a better and stronger person. We just need to realize that. I hope i am making sense if not oh well.

I don't want to cry but i cry yes it is ok to cry if you are hurt everything should be ok but one thing should not be ok. ***Giving up ***. It shouldn't be an option it couldn't be an option.

I remember once my teacher said that

Failure is not an option

I wonder why failure is not an option? I told this to my father that today our teacher said to the whole class that you guys have no option of failure. My Father told me How would you understand the essence of success if you don't know the taste of failure.

So you must know that failure should be an option because when we fail then we get a motivation to get up. This is how life goes this is how things keep going. We can only become stronger when we learn from our mistakes, failures. But always remember failure could be an option but giving up should not be an option.

We human are so strange creatures sometimes i really wonder. Our minds are trained in a certain direction like we all have this in our mind and we call it Perfection. When we know no one is perfect in this world then why are we running behind perfection?

We want everything settled in our life either it's a relationship, career or whatever. Again we always forget this reality of life that we all are perfectly imperfect human beings. And this thing should be perfectly alright for all of us. If you know your soul is absolute within then this is it. You don't need to be ideal for others because they want to see you perfect

Do you know what makes us perfect? when we try to put a smile on someone's face instead of snathing away their smiles when we try to help others without having any personal benefit. This is how i am and this is how i live my life.

That's all for now,see you all around take care, happy weekend.