THE IMPORTANCE OF FAMILY.
I am writing this because I have come across people who do not have regard for their families and I think it is very sad. One should not wait for the chiefs to be down first before they know the importance of family.
It is only family that will stand by you when the chiefs are down. Some people for what ever reason like to take solace outside of their family and I think that is wrong. I know sometimes family can be very overbearing but just try to bear with that because when the chiefs are down, it is family that will stick around you.
A family member of ours felt that he can disregard the family anyhow he likes and take solace from outsiders. He really treated the family badly, looking down on the family advice and taking that of outsider even though it was clear that the family advice was better. This continued for a while until one day something happened that made people to desert themselves from him.
He came running back to the family and they welcomed him with open arms no matter how hurt they were by his behaviors.
So family is very important In life because when the world turns against you, be sure that your family will be there to support you. So for those who think they can just disrespect their families anyhow they like, should snap out of that nonsense because it is always the family that will be there for you most of the time when things are down for you. Or else..............., you can fill in the blank space with what you think.
My brief message for today. @yaanivapeji.
Family is everything man. Sometimes I really do not understand how people are in such bad relations with their families, it is as if they dont realize that in the end it all boils down to blood.
We should cherish our family man!!
It beats my imagination too when I see some families in bad relationships too. I guess they are hunted.
It beats my imagination too when I see some families in bad relationships too. I guess they are hunted.
Or else you will live a life of awonderer or be like a tree that have no root.
Family suppose to be the first thing you will preserve because almost everything start from family and ends in family.
My family over everything.
Exactly my friend @bombo17
The importance of having a family in the first place depends largely on what kind of society you live in.
OK. Can you elaborate more @markkujantunen?
In third world countries without generous welfare or pension programs people rely on their family for survival in old age. In developed countries, people can and frequently do opt for not marrying and having children.
In Third World countries, people do opt out from marrying too. But I think the thing here is that because of the natural bond in families, if you have a family there is a tendency to want to stick with family even if the rest of the world turn against them I guess.
Of course.
But speaking of opting out of marriage, it is far more common developed countries.
I agree.