SEC17 WK:#3:big and small families, likes and dislikes

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Hello friends, how are you? I am very happy because today I have the opportunity to take part in this extraordinary contest, for the past few days I have been very busy with work that I cannot leave

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First of all, I would like to thank the Steemit team and this community team for creating an extraordinary Steemit Engagement Challenge with a very good and touching discussion theme.

As the head of a family, of course we can already feel how to lead a family well, whether it has many or few members, and here I only have three family members consisting of me, my wife and my daughter.

There are good and bad sides, but we just live with it all happily, there is a friend of mine who already has five children and now his wife is pregnant again, what is on my mind is that he doesn't have time to take care of himself because he is now ugly and his days only take care of him. child

However, for him it is a pleasure even though he doesn't have time to enjoy outside life, in fact, in contrast, he pities me because up to now he only has one child, it can even be an object of ridicule from him.

However, I really enjoy it because I can have fun with my wife and can go on holiday and travel

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go alone with your wife

Like today I can walk alone with my wife without being disturbed by my child because he is at school so we can have more freedom to be more romantic and our faces look good because we have time to take care of ourselves.

Because we know that children are a gift from God, so we just try to accept happily what has been determined, and my daughter doesn't mind if we spend time together without her because she is already in grade 5 of elementary school.

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However, there are times when we feel lonely and we miss the sound of small children crying and the noise of small children playing, the way we deal with this is sometimes we bring in our young nephew.

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with nephew

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His name is Humoira, his mother died while giving birth to him and he now lives with my in-laws so he often plays here and often even sleeps here and my daughter also really loves him and they can play together

It turns out it's really fun if there are small children at home, but for me two or three children are enough so that we have the opportunity to take care of ourselves and have fun and if there are too many children there will certainly be unequal distribution of love and education.

In addition, the economic life that is not yet established means that there are more burdens and there is no time to think about anything other than working hard to support the family

That's the post about my participation in this contest. I also invite @nana12 @radjasalman @neukyan to attend to enliven this contest

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I am happy to know that you are happy with your wife and daughter. Because you have less responsibility as well as enough time for them. With whom you can have fun. Can enjoy moments of happiness. Whereas your friend already has five children and has planned to have one more child, he has a lot of responsibilities due to which he may not be able to experience the happy moments of his life as much as a People with small families do it. Be happy, have fun with your family.

thank you, of course because we are not too busy taking care of the children and we can have fun

Hello, it is understandable that you have decided to keep a girl, I think you have been very focused, realistic, that of bringing children into the world to suffer shortages hey it is not right, we can give affection but it needs other things that only money can buy. Raising a child is very expensive, in some countries more than in others.

It is good that you have time for romance, it is an advantage, besides you can support your niece, which is wonderful, good for her and for you.

Thanks verymuch

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Thanks verymuch

 last month 

Greetings sir, reading your post was good I must confess that this is the first time am reading your post in steemit for the first time 🫣.

Is quite unfortunate that the boy's mum died while she was giving birth to him. At least the boy is still a happy soul.

Nuclear and extended family are both good but we all love one more than the other. I wish you good luck in this engagement challenge.

Thank you friend, have a nice day

 last month 

You are welcome my friend. Is a new week and I believe you have already set out alot of plans for yourself in this new week.

Once again I really enjoyed reading your post. I ove engagement challenge alot because it increases the visibility of people's posts.

good to see you. actually this week I don't have plans for a holiday but we are just attending a wedding in my area, besides right now my family's economy is not doing well

 last month 

Alright, though I wasn't really talking about holiday but your general plans. Just like you just said your family economy isn't doing well so am sure you have plans to be able to survive on this.

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