Who Deserves To Be In Front Seat- Mother In-law Or Wife?".

in africansonsteem2 months ago
Who do you think should always share the car front seat with the man? Mother-in-law or Wife?

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In my opinion, the wife should be the one to sit in the front seat.

What is your reason for choosing either?

As a man, once you are married, your wife becomes first in your life. She becomes your gist partner and more. In a healthy relationship, your partner should always be by your side or seated by your side. Doing so gives you both opportunities to talk to each other or keep each other company. It doesn't make sense for another person to sit beside you while your wife sits behind. In all, we have to be considerate and adaptable in some situations.

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Do you think this should be considered as an issue in the family?

No, but people are different, and people react differently to things.

Personally this won't be an issue for me because I don't really attach importance to things like this. If my mother-in-law says she wants to sit in the front seat, then no problem; her sitting in the front seat doesn't take anything from me. In fact,my allowing her to sit in the front seat shows I'm mature and that I love peace and choose it over quarrel or misunderstanding. On the other hand, a husband should show in action and words that he loves his wife and that she is first in his life, not belittling her in the presence of others or his mother-in-law.

What is your advice to families going through this phase on deciding who should share the car front seat?

To the husband

Always put your wife first. Let your mother understand her place in your life. Listen to your wife when she complains about how she feels and tries to understand her. By your words and actions, show that you love and respect your wife.

To the wife

Sometimes for the sake of peace, let go of your right; it won't take anything from you. Try to be reasonable and adaptable. Try to understand why your mom or mother-in-law wants to sit in the front seat. If it hurts you so bad, call your mother-in-law and talk peacefully and respectfully to her about how you are hurt or feel about her actions. If she is reasonable or mature enough, she will apologize and make adjustments, but if she doesn't, show that you are more mature and reasonable by letting go. Two people cannot make a right.

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Thank you so much

Saludos apreciada amiga. Tal como lo explicas. Es necesario hacer entender cada uno de los roles que debe cumplir cada miembro de la familia. Y el hombre debe establecer las reglas y la posición que ocupa tanto su madre como su esposa en la relación. Te deseo éxitos y bendiciones