I can't say I blame you. Accepting things for how they are is perhaps the best approach for one's peace of mind. In the end, only those with substantive SP holdings can influence the developmental trajectory of this site and the Steem blockchain. Even then, there are varying views about what that should be. Consider this an experiment, as all things in the crypto space are in this early stage of adoption - with time, quality projects will be rewarded, and those that flounder will get left behind.