Solitude in old age

in CCC21 days ago

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Living your old age should be accompanied by your children and grandchildren, but what can I do, they are all busy living their own lives, they also have the right to be happy in their world.

I, who am old, also have my own life, playing the piano is my choice to entertain my loneliness, I have also been abandoned by my partner for a long time, there is no place to complain.

Here I try to fill my days before the creator actually takes my destiny.

That concludes my post for today; thank you for stopping by and taking the time to read it. Best regards.

Sincerely,

@suryati1

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 21 days ago 

It feels sad reading this but it seems to be a reality these days. With this new age, living an old age expecting accompaniment by your children is becoming far fetched. I expect to live alone when I grow old and have no expectation of any accompaniment. Without an expectation, life is happier I think. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.

Such is the reality of life: when we grow old, sometimes our children may not want to care for us—yet that does not mean no one will look after us; it depends on how they were raised and on their individual characters.

Sometimes I feel sad seeing someone treat their parents like animals; after all, when we were little, our parents cared for us with such love, yet in return, they end up being neglected.

A single parent can care for up to ten children, yet a child is not necessarily able to care for even one parent.

There is a saying that a child's love extends only as far as the road ahead, whereas a mother's love lasts a lifetime; may those who still have parents care for them well.

It is even more said to say that a child's love extends only as far as the road ahead..it is true. We cannot choose our parents and assuming our children love is wrong.
Depending on or being used to is not love.

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Maka dari itu kita harus saling setia dengan pasangan masing-masing karena yang akan menemani hari tua kita hanya pasangan bukan anak atau yang lainnya, dulu sebelum ada anak kita hidup dengan pasangan kita dan setelah kita tua kita pun akan kembali seperti semula.

Lihatlah contoh seekor ayam betina mampu mengasuh sepuluh ekor anaknya namun belum tentu anaknya mampu melindungi induknya, sama seperti kita juga, memiliki banyak anak dan kita rawat dengan baik, begitu kita tua semua anak sibuk mengurus keluarganya bahkan ada orang tua yang di titipkan di panti jompo, dengan alasan sibuk kerja

Tienes razón. Es necesario rescatar los valores de pareja, familia y convivencia.

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 20 days ago 

Most likely I will too although I do not count getting old. I find it a strange thing to say to people. What is the fun of reaching a high age while suffering from health issues and mainly sitting at the window or laying in bed?

It is not how old one gets, but the quality of life.

I agree that with no expections it can only get better.

 17 days ago 

Yah and seeing many elderly, some not even elderly, in their 40s or 50s or 60s immobile, having all sorts of sickness. Quality of life indeed. Must take care of ourselves so that we can age gracefully while still able to do the things we enjoy.

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 15 days ago 

Thank you! 💗💕

 20 days ago 

It is the reality of life. Having children and grandchildren are no guarantee you will be taken care of once old. It is good to be aware of that and build your life, connections, friendships and to have hobbies. Some saving or properties will help too.

Now that’s the right mindset; why pin your hopes on something only to end up disappointed? It is better to prepare for our old age by filling our time with activities that bring us happiness.

This BOOMING vote is yours and well deserved!
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Terimakasih temanku atas dukungannya 🙏