Know the Type of Criminals Sexual Violence Children, one pedophile who impersonate as a teacher

Since the development of cases of violence against children in Indonesia, many parents and educators have sought to dig deeper information to equip themselves in protecting their children from sexual violence.

In fact, there is not a single specific characteristic or identifiable personality type of a child abuser. In other words, anyone can be a child molester or pedophile.

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According to Prof. Drs. Adrianus E. Meliala, M.SI., M.Sc., Ph.D., Professor of Criminology University of Indonesia, there are many categories of pedophiles, those who are interested in children under 5 years old called infantophilia. While others, those interested in girls aged 12-16 years are called hebophilia, and those who are attracted to boys at that age, are known as ephebohiles. Based on behavior, there is called exhibitionism, which is for those who like to show off his cock, like to expose children or called voyeurism, like mastuberasi in front of children, or just squeezing pubic child.

According to the expression of a Professor I interviewed, he said clearly "Pedophiles usually do have abnormalities, meaning that this person may have experienced the same trauma in the past, resulting in deviant behavior in the present, possibly because of lifestyle, for example ; such as the habit of watching pornography, thus shaping her inner desire for sex. "

He also added, this pedophilia outbreak has even penetrated to some countries. "If in the western world they even have their own communities, so the protection of children in government there is so strict to deal with these predators, and now Indonesia is an easy target to expand its prey, because the protection of our children is still not so strong".

To be honest, I think a criminal act like this can happen anytime and anywhere. And anyone can be a perpetrator of sexual violence against your child, because there are no special characteristics for those who do it. For that, you still have to be wary of child criminals. They may be close to you or your child. From various circles. Clearly, pedophiles never stop, they also tend to modify different targets, and anyone can target, even their own siblings, that's why they are called predators.

Dr. Ray Blanchard, Professor of Psychiatry at the University of Toronto says that child molesters are defined by their acts; pedophiles are defined by their desires. In an article in the New York Times (5/10/14) entitled Pedophilia: A Disorder, Not a Crime by Margo Kaplan, he points out another mistake about people with pedophilia is that being a pedophile is a choice. Recent research proves that they have congenital nerve abnormalities. There is a failure of stimulation in the brain to recognize the sexual response. However, a pedophile who has been convicted of a crime must still receive a penalty of justice. He can not escape punishment on the basis of mental illness.

Therefore, you as a parent must be careful in taking care of your child or in releasing play with strangers. Because this case often occurs when the parents lose control of the child, and too much to trust the stranger in taking care of his child. Identify the causes and be aware of the people you suspect. Some tips from me are;

• Good touch and Bad Touch
  To protect children from sexual harassment, you as a parent should be the protector who educates the child. You have to teach your kids about good touch and bad touches at the age of the children. The child must be taught about the limitations of others in touching them, even if they are family members.

• Starting from family
  Many cases of pedophiles start from their own families. Therefore, reminding members of the family itself becomes an important thing to do. You as a parent, or you are a mother should be quite selective in entrusting your child's care when they can not accompany their own children.

• Give your child limitations in interacting
  Since you were a baby, you as a parent can already protect children by rebuking the subtle other adults who are too 'close' with the baby. Close here means like touching too much, kissing, or other unusual interactions.

• Help introduce the child's body parts
  When the child is told about his body parts, make sure you as his parents also explain there are some parts of the body that can not be touched by others that is vital and sensitive. In fact, when parents are about to touch to help put their pants on or clean it should ask permission first. The easier way to convey it is to tell the body parts covered by the swimsuits should not be touched by others.

• Teach your child to shout loudly and ask for help
  Children should be taught to be wary of the environment. Tell them that when someone forces them to come to a dark or deserted place, do not hesitate to shout and ask for help.

• Make sure you communicate openly with the child
  In your daily life with your child, build effective open communication with them. Instead of one-way communication, the communication that exists must be reciprocal and effective. Parents learn to listen to stories until the child complains, so when things go on like a pedophile case, parents can act immediately.

So that's some tips from me hopefully useful. You as a parent have a very important role in keeping the child from this pedophile. Make sure your child is always awake from various things that may disturb him by building a positive relationship with children through communication.

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