Everything is fine, but why is my mind still messy?
How are you all my friends? I hope you are all well, your families are also healthy. Today I am sharing some important things with you again, I think you will like it.
Actually, in this small life of mine, I always try to keep everything organized. Be it any work, any responsibility, even a relationship with a person, everything should be in order. I always try that. From the outside, it seems that my life is quite organized. But there is a place inside this organized life that I have never been able to organize properly. Do you know that? That is, my mind.
The feelings in each of our minds are very strange. They cannot be arranged as desired. No matter how hard we try, some feelings remain chaotic. Some things are not said, some pains accumulate silently. We often think that there is no need to give importance to them. They will get better with time. But to be honest, time does not fix everything. Some feelings just go deep.
I have understood this from my own life. Day after day, while fulfilling my responsibilities, standing by others, I pushed my feelings aside. I felt like I should finish the work first, let everyone be well first. My mind will be seen later. But the mind does not follow any schedule. It wants to speak in its own time.
Many nights, I realize that there is an uneasiness brewing somewhere inside. There is no specific reason, yet my mind feels heavy. Then I realize that the things I have ignored so far are what are stopping me today. When we do not give importance to our feelings, they eventually reduce our strength.
Believe me, friends, from this place I have learned one thing very well, there is no need to be strong all the time. Even while handling everything, it is much more important to stop and look at ourselves from time to time. Each of us needs to ask our mind, how are you? Although this question seems very simple, we rarely ask ourselves. So, ask yourself this question at least once in a while, and you will see that it will be good.
So, now I try to accept the chaotic side of my mind along with organizing everything. Not all feelings need to be named, not all pain needs to be solved. Just admitting it makes your mind feel lighter. Yes, I am human, and my mind can get tired too.
Maybe the feelings in your mind can never be completely sorted out. Still, I believe that if you don't neglect them, if you don't leave them unattended, they will slowly start to heal on their own. And that is perhaps the greatest care for yourself. So at least learn to take care of yourself.
How did you feel, friends? I hope you liked my little words. If you liked them, of course, you will share your opinion. Thank you all.
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