It's impossible to please everyone.

in Colombia-Original3 days ago

How are you all my friends?. hope you are all doing very well. And by the grace of the Creator, everyone's day is going well. I am also neither going very well nor very badly. However, today I suddenly remembered something, so I thought I would share it with you. I think you will like it.
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We all want to be successful in life; none of us can deny this, right? All our running from morning to night is behind that one goal. How to be successful in life, how to rise above everyone. But to be honest, I do not know any fixed rules or secret formula for success. Some may be successful by studying, some do business, and some through their own creative work. Everyone's path is different. Because there is only one road to success, nine thousand different paths are open. For us.

But I am certain of one component. Even if I do now not understand the street to success, I actually have recognized the street to failure. And that remaining reality is, “I don’t recognize the manner to succeed, however the key to failure is to try to please anybody. Actually, why am I saying this? Think approximately it, how actual it's far!

I have experienced in my own life that whenever I tried to please everyone around me, I lost myself. Many times, I fell out of the seat from the goal that was my life. If you go to the right, the people on the left will be unhappy. If you go to the left again, the people on the right will listen. Even if you want to, you cannot please everyone in the world at the same time. It is impossible.

As you provide for people’s minds, you will see at some point that your own desires, your own dreams, and your own personality—everything is buried under the choices of others. At the end of the day, everyone is good the way they are; only you are left alone. You don’t have time to look at yourself anymore.

That’s why I now not attempt in useless to delight all of us. I do what I think is proper, what doesn’t trouble my sense of right and wrong. Maybe a few people will criticize me for it. I don't care if a person is unhappy or misunderstood. Because now, on the quit of my life, I can apprehend a few feelings. But agree with me, I get a ordinary peace of thoughts once I sleep at night time. Because I realize that I am now not mendacity to each person.
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To me, success is not just about money or fame. Being honest with yourself, being able to make your own decisions, and being able to see your own smile in the mirror at the end of the day is real success for me.

So, let's not push our lives towards failure by trying to please others. Those who love you will love you with all your mistakes and flaws. And there is no point in sacrificing yourself to please those who only want to use you for their own interests.

Go on your own path, keep the key to your own happiness in your own hands. Everyone will be fine.

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What a creative mindset you have friend, I agree with you in all that you have said. Pleasing everyone is not worth it. And it can even make one to have a low self esteem. I have been in that shoe and trust me life was hell for me then until I decided to wake up and break from that circles of friends. Nice article friend.

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