Indeed, it is from a person's heart through which you can make them chase after you. But, I have seen many marriages start off with love, compassion, and understanding but after a few years, little misunderstandings and husband-wife fights outthrow their love and all they want is to escape from such an unhealthy relationship. They seek divorce as the last possible option. In such cases, it is always advised to look from all perspectives and consult a divorce solutionist regarding your matter.