The Many Personalities of Natashya Monroe - The Dominatrix

I know what you're thinking. I know exactly how you visualize my alter ego, Mistress Lady Natashya Monroe. You're wrong.

Haven't you ever watched a movie that's similar to your lifestyle, hobbies, etc and thought, "that's inaccurate"? Exactly.

Everyone has a different opinion of what a Dominatrix is, they're all right.

What is a woman? What is an apple? What is home? Many definitions will certainly bode very similar or overlapping ideals as to what a home is, and many definitions would be so far from the norm. They're all right.

I believe that the root definition of what a Dom(me) person is cannot waver from the basic definition of "dominate".

quote dom·i·nate
/ˈdäməˌnāt/
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verb
have a commanding influence on; exercise control over (Oxford Dictionary).

That's it. The end.

Not leather.
Not violence.
Not whips.
Not collars.
Not even spankings.

To be dominate can mean anything to anyone.

The boss at work is dominate.
Parents are dominate.
Queens, Kings, Gods and Goddesses are dominate.
The snob in high school is dominate.
Even a sweet, shy, mousey librarian is dominate.

Look, it's me!

Lady Natashya doesn't care for leather and masks. Masks creep me out and ball gags are disgusting (who wants all that spit dripping everywhere?).

Natashya Mary Monroe is my core alter ego. She's not necessarily a Dominatrix. Mistress Lady Natashya is a Domme. She's erotic and dignified. MLN is the researcher, the intelligent, the mentor.

I have deliberately separated parts of my persona to create characters. It's like acting except, each face is a true side of myself. In most cases, the personality and behavior of each alter ego has been very much exaggerated, blown out of proportion. It's like that "based on true events" movie that is mildly true and wildly animated.

I am an exaggerated animation.

What roles do I partake in?

• Rockstar Bitch. This is my fav and one of the closest to who I am, or who I once was. I was the depressed teen full of angst who loved rock and roll and the dark goth look before that "emo" word made it cool. I find it especially easy to trigger this bitch to come out with the right music.
• Boss Lady or Boss Bitch. This is essential who I am as an adult. I wielded a career in business requiring business clothes, heels, and an assertive attitude. There's the nice but tough or the bitchy boss sides.
• Nun. The holder of secrets and disciplinarian.
• Teacher. The judgemental yet compassionate mentor.
• Caregiver. The much softer side.
• Snobby Posh. Too good for you, ew why am I even talking to you. There's a teen'ish attitude or the upscale adult.
• Ex Girlfriend or soon to be.
• Doll Girl. She likes to tell the boys and girls what to wear, how to do makeup, and how to be her toy dolls.
• Earth Goddess. She's a boho hippy earth girl. A feminist. An animal lover. Earth Goddess is in each and every persona and she's one of my favorites to bring out. She thinks of everyone as more equal however a woman will always be the creator of all beautiful living things. She adores when she's handed a glass of wine as she dances topless in the rain under the trees.
• Goddess. Elegant. Sexy. She wears what she wants and does what she wants. This is her empire. She's strong, beautiful, loved and respected. Goddess is intelligent beyond words.
• Princess. A younger variation of the Goddess. She's bratty. Wants what she wants and when she wants it. She's likely to make a slight fool of herself from time to time as a young princess brat may do, but she's generally fairly decent and mostly well liked. Don't except her to be "perfect" as she is a rule breaker, yet a rule maker.
• Queen. She's the most distinguished. The most respected. The least animated as her strength and power do not require her to be over the top. Massage her feet, clean her castle and then thank her for the honor to do so.

And then there's the newest family member who hasn't yet fully developed. She's a strong disciplinarian with a tendency to be physical and verbal. Those who like a very hard paddling, whipping and to be verbally broken down would best enjoy this unknown persona. This person is our sweet sadistic entity and she will take my stress out on your flesh.

The personas that are easiest and most casual to tap into are: Rock Goth Chick, Earth Goddess, Caregiver, and Brat (Princess/Brat). I love when others tell me their dirty secrets, so Nun is a lot of fun too.