Abusing that power
The deep desire to feel power, to me, it comes from a lack of it. It's a contradiction I know but you need to understand why I say that. In a sense yes, abusers are not weak or they wouldn’t be able to abuse and use others but those who hold real power don't need such ways to express the power. People actually want them to have the power.
The weakness in people who hold a little power corrupts them but actual power doesn't corrupt the soul. Truth is whether they will be corrupted or not is not even from the power but from their on mentality which is the weakness I talked about.
True power doesn’t need to stomp on the necks of others to work, it's like gravity, it's a fact regardless and doesn't try to prove it exists or can act on an object. If you need to manipulate people to feel secure, you’re not strong, you're even admitting your weakness by doing that.
They need to use others to feel strong, which proves they’re scared to face life on their.
People who abuse the power want to feel like they matter and they'll do anything even if it's at the expense of others. An abuser’s power is tied to his ability to control. You're looking at an error and not something good. It's just a matter of time, it'll show.
What abusers lack is discipline that's why they're so desperate to prove things. You can meet someone whose sense of entitlement is so much it's looking disgusting and they demand so much. They have no limits to their demands. Giving them what they want only reinforces the entitlement mentality making them a bigger monster.