Blind loyalty and fighting other people's battles

in Dream Steem7 days ago

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By taking sides in an issue that doesn't directly affect you, it shows how unaware you are about the right way to live and weak a person really is.

I've watched this in many workplaces, amongst my friends and even in my little family. Where someone whispers to someone else that Mr. Kunle (or anyone else) is a bad person, and they don't even know why he's this person whispering thinks Mr. Kunle is bad and then they just stop speaking to or acknowledging that him. Why would you think it's okay to make a decision with either very little information or a one sided information about a situation. Even the court rooms that has both sides allowed to speak with all evidences can pass the wrong judgment and you think you are so sure about Mr. Kunle because one person told you something bad about him which you haven't seen for yourself happen.

You're just wasting your time by talking about these type of things. You can be loyal to that friend that whispers and talks about people to a point, but you have to draw the line.

It's better to stay away from malice so long as the person did not offend you. And even if the person did offend you, it's better to resolve it with a discussion than building up hatred. Isn't life way too stressful to add this to it?

When for the sake of loyalty to one your attack someone who hasn't wronged you, you can easily become a tool in the hand of a wicked person when you carry the enemies of a wicked person.

You should be concentrating on yourself and eating what you have in peace. Those who focus on the enemies of others end up regretting it if the two original adversaries resolve their situation over a bottle of drink and you appear to be a complete stranger in the midst of their new relationship. It can happen, it happens and you don't want to be at the business end of that kind of a mess.

Original source of the image from Pixabay but edited by me

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