One Of the Most Important Things For Your Future
One of the biggest, and most important things to you personally, is finding your tribe/your "family".
Bigger than the coming banking system collapse.
Bigger than the unCivil wars.
Bigger than the stock market collapse and the later multi-national-corporation collapses.
Although those are big things, finding your tribe is the beginning of a new paradigm. It is the giving up of the everyone for themselves paradigm. And it the rejection of the everyone as a collective paradigm. It is the start of interdependence. And that changes everything.
So many of the children born today lived traumatic childhoods. And, these children, who became adults, were told to just stuff it, and so, never heal, passing it to the next generation. A larger "family" than just the nuclear family, solves so much of this.
Welfare will be handled by your peers. People who have a direct connection with you. People who know what you need. Not some bureaucrats behind soulless computers.
Basically, so much of what you actually need is provided living in a intentional community. Made of people that you choose to live with. So much that you didn't know you were missing.
Ending childhood trauma
Childhood trauma that ends in CPTSD doesn't really happen because of the trauma, it happens because no one is there, that believes them, and offers a way to resolve it. The actual trauma is from not having a way out. Being/feeling trapped.
With more that just a mother and a father, so much of the trauma doesn't get a chance to form into CPTSD. There are other adults to go to. Children are not trapped in bad relationships, with no one to help, and without a different view of how things can be. More parental figures gives more viewpoints, more people to ask, and most importantly, someone to runaway to. (The child does not feel as trapped)
Maybe we will really break the childhood trauma cycle. Hurt people, hurt, people. A child traumatized will traumatize their children, unless they do serious healing work on themselves.
Fear, seriously mitigated.
So much fear, especially for women, comes from not having anyone who actually cares for them. It is them against the world, and the world can be very scary.
When you are in the big city, you need a job, so you can buy food. Your eating relies on you keeping a job. You are trusting in a boss/company, that doesn't really care about you. And trusting in a grocery store, that doesn't really care about you. So many moving pieces. The floor could fall out from beneath you at any moment. Starvation is around every corner.
In a small community, with your tribe, everyone is working on maintaining food production. Some people milking cows, some people collecting eggs, some people growing vegetable, others growing livestock. It is all by a group of people who want everyone to be fed; no one to go hungry. Where excess is good. Not like crony-capitalism where excess means someone doesn't get paid for growing.
In the city, when you are walking down the street (at night, of course) there are just strangers. You don't know what they will do. The next one you meet could be a criminal out to rob you, if you are lucky. That would be a much better outcome then the things you are having run through your mind.
Being in a small community of less then 100 people means you can know each person. In a big city, your brain cannot hold that much information, that many connections, so you end up with many meaningless connections, and those connections have a limit. Your brain can't hold any more.
And when you know everyone, meetings, even on the street at night is usually good. Someone you know. Someone you may have been looking forward to talking to.
The fear/stress levels are much lower.
Not for money
In an intentional community the work is not for money. Everyone helps with the farming. Everyone is a part time farmer. The electricity is made by systems that the community owns, maintains and runs. The community is almost self sufficient.
And so, things that people need, that are made inside the community, aren't sold for money. It might be traded, or bartered, or just made out of the goodness of their heart.
Of course there will be a "family" business. What the community makes to trade/exchange/sell to other communities. Something that allows the tribe to get things it can't make/grown themselves.
This really changes peoples views about money.
No one can really get rich; make people jealous, without improving the quality of living for everyone.
I call it the Great Migration. (and some others call it that too) We are, as a planet, going to seek out our tribes/"families".
Governments are going to become something completely different. As you can see, from what i have written, so much of what the govern-cement today does will be useless, unneeded, unwanted by the "families" in the future. Welfare will be handled locally. Criminal acts will be handled locally. Laws will be handled locally. Food will be handled locally. No police, no taxes, no electric grid.
The things government may do is to actually offer help, when asked, to solve a problem a community runs into and cannot find a solution for. A wise council, that is actually wise.
To the people in the community, life will be so much better. So much less stress, fear. And a feeling of connection, safety.
However, you, me, we, will have to work out interpersonal communication and problem solving in a way we haven't done for a while. Instead of running away, or closing ourselves off, we must work things out.
Things will get a LOT better. And the world will get a LOT better.
So, keep an eye out for your "family"