RAVE: Sex before marriage?

in #entertainment6 years ago

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It's friday and the weekend is here, yay!!! But before we get down and boogie let's rave first.

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Let's rave about this whole sex thing. What do you think about sex before marriage? I mean does that rule still work for our generation?

Most things in this generation has a sexual undertone and it's alarming, the bible still has its stand about the bed being undefiled but it's like we have all ignored that part of the bible. In fact someone said "if God did not want sex before marriage, why did he not just lock our private parts until when we are married or why do we have to get horny when we are not married?".

This whole topic is crazy and i want your view about this.

What do you think about sex before marriage and how are you holding up

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Sex is suppose to be sacred. Sacred means it should be holy and pure. The only way sex can be holy is when it follows the direction of the holy book. Sex should be after marriage according to the holy book though sex before marriage follows physical tradition (testing waters before diving in).

Okay, so you believe sex is supposed to be only after marriage, cool. But do you have a problem with people who have sex before marriage, what if your partner has had sex with other people before y'all get married?

I'm trying to be indifferent because it's a matter of CHOICE. My partner's pasts are behind him. This is our present and future, we decide on whether to wait or not

Lovely write up dear.
Sex before marriage is now a trend in today's society, it's now the new normal. I might sound old school but I'm someone who believes that sex shouldn't be done outside the marital bed. I guess my belief is being attached to my religious view and the upbringing I have.
Nevertheless I don't have a problem with anyone having sex before marriage, staying away from premarital sex or not is a personal decision that I think everyone have the right to choose.

That's cool. But do you have a problem marrying someone who has been sexually active?

No I don't. The past should be in the past.
What matters is what he is presently
Thank you

Well, sex before marriage is the tradition we have inherited from previous generation. I can remember a friend's father telling him "how will you know if she is fertile if you don't test her." That's their belief. It should be a decision between couples though. Thanks for the post.

Lol, what a father!
Thank you for stopping by

First let me ask you, do u have a problem with somebody that have had sex? before I mean a partner that have had sex.

The issue is not sex before marriage, the issue is pregnancy before marriage

Am I communicating @soorefunmi