It Is Blame and Who's to Blame
Who is to blame? When the heart is attached to someone, and finally can not be together to set the future? Who is to blame? When we've fallen in love, but only as a filler of the heart not as a filler of life. Who is to blame? When love is spoken but never permitted and finally abandoned. Who is to blame? Self. Only self is worth blaming, for imposing circumstances that should not be done.
Is not love deserved to be expressed? But why is this self worth blaming? Sometimes we blame the situation, blaming that love deserves to be revealed but why should anyone be blamed? Indeed, love deserves to be disclosed, but do we express it in a very timely manner? Do we express it with the right person? Do we express it in the right way?
Third party reference
Simple things sometimes create tremendous problems. Simple things sometimes make a dispute that never has a solution. The simple thing, sometimes create hostilities that never akurnnya. Who should be blamed for? Is love to bear the risks? No, love does not deserve to bear all the risks, but it is ourselves who deserve to bear the risk. Bear the turmoil when love is often expressed but ultimately abandoned. Bear all the heartache with all kinds of disputes. Is not love is peace? Why with love even create a dispute?
If we express it in the proper way, then there will be no overwhelming turmoil. If there is no hope given, there will be no hearts hurt. Yes, it's not love, it's not him or them, it's our self that is blameworthy. Worth blaming because we are impatient in the waiting period so hasty in expressing. If we just wait a little bit, there will be no hearts hurt, there will be no disputes, there will be no disputes, because all are followed by the right path.
Third party reference
If we are patient in the waiting process, there is no such thing as a former, there is no such thing as hostility, it will give us happiness, because we never reveal our hearts to someone in vain.
Be patient, like waiting for the honey that bee has been cultivated in picking it up on the flower, thus producing honey that we can use its usefulness. What we are waiting for, God willing will give us happiness as long as it does not violate the various rules of feeling.