Don't think she is just going to swoon just by looking at yr equipment. Well, maybe😉.

I was going to say, it hasn't always been the lead information to know about a prospective partner, but I've had to pick up my jaw before ;* but I agree that communication is the way to really achieve mutual pleasure and comfort from the experience, and I'd say that's a big part of the act! I guess you can also make little mini-humans from it, but that's a lot more responsibility than just helping her reach climax haha. Thanks for your insight and I hope you'll also participate in my more male based post to follow!