Ditch the Survival Guide: It's Time to THRIVE, Not Just Survive!
Hey awesome people! Ever feel like you're just... getting through the day? Like you're constantly in "survival mode," barely keeping your head above water? If that's you, high-five (or maybe a sympathetic nod) because you're not alone. But guess what? It's time to flip the script!
Recently, some seriously inspiring women at the University of Maryland, Baltimore (UMB) dropped major wisdom bombs during their Women's History Month Symposium, and the big theme was all about thriving instead of just surviving. And let me tell you, it's a game-changer!
Imagine moving from just treading water to actually swimming laps with a big smile on your face. That's the vibe! Marla O. Holland, a brilliant HR guru, highlighted that it's crucial to build your squad – those amazing people who lift you up. Think of them as your personal cheerleading team! And seriously, self-care isn't a luxury; it's a necessity. It’s like charging your phone before it dies, but for you. Most importantly, she said, know your worth. Like, really know it. You're a big deal, so own it! Stop just getting by and start demanding the awesome life you deserve.
Then we heard from Diane St. George, who's basically a super-connector for students. She spilled the tea on speaking up for yourself (hello, self-advocacy!). It's not about being bossy; it's about making sure your voice is heard and your needs are met. And speaking of needs, learning to draw those invisible lines in the sand – aka setting boundaries – is pure gold. It protects your peace, your energy, and your sanity. Plus, don't forget to celebrate the small wins! Did you get out of bed today? Woohoo! Did you answer that email you've been dreading? High-five yourself! Every little step forward deserves a mental parade.
The big takeaway? Moving from "survival mode" (where you're reacting to everything) to "thriving mode" (where you're creating the life you want) is totally within reach. It's about empowering yourself, building your community, and deciding what success looks like for you, not for anyone else.
So, what are you waiting for? Let's ditch the "just surviving" and start flourishing!
Inspired by: https://elm.umaryland.edu/elm-stories/2026/Womens-History-Month-Symposium-Speakers-Focus-on-Thriving.php