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Hi friends, The day before yesterday, a discussion was held with the girl's parents for the wedding of my brother-in-law's son. The girl's parents and all her relatives and family members came to my brother-in-law's house. According to Hindu and Tamil culture, after deciding on a girl for marriage, first, both families exchange things called seer. In that way, the day before yesterday, the ceremony of exchanging these seer types took place.

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The bride standing with me in the first photo is a doctor in Hyderabad. She is going to London soon to pursue higher education in medicine. Her family is also a medical family. Both her father and mother are doctors. Since this is a family and traditional event, it is customary to wear traditional clothes accordingly. I wore our traditional dress, a sari. I had made that sari last week for this event. It was made of silk and designed with lace. I loved it.

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This is the second event of a wedding that has taken place. The first event is that the groom's family goes to the girl's house and sees the girl. The second is the tradition of exchanging such plates. The third is the engagement ceremony. During the engagement ceremony, it is customary to announce the wedding date, reception date, etc. Since this plate ceremony was held the day before yesterday, we also went to my brother-in-law's house with our family. Many other relatives also came. The ceremony started at around 12 noon. Then everyone introduced their respective families to everyone.
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After introducing all the members, they presented the seer plates they had brought as gifts to my brother-in-law, i.e. the groom's family, and similarly, they also presented plates to the bride's family. Then everyone greeted the bride and groom, i.e., the ones who are going to get married. They greeted and blessed both of them. After blessing them every day, we also blessed them when our turn came. Then everyone took a picture with them today. I also took a picture on my mobile phone.

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After that, the party was held. There was a small function hall near the house. The party was held in it. The party was served on banana leaves. The food consisted of biryani, rice, sambar, gravy, fried rice, appalam, sweet vada, payasam, pickles, etc.

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After everyone had eaten, we mingled and chatted with all the relatives. I was thrilled to see everyone. They were also very happy to meet me. Then they all left one by one. We said goodbye to everyone and returned home at about five o'clock. I was very happy to participate in this event.

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नमस्ते मै सुधा सिंह हु यह आपकी डायरी मुझे बहुत ही प्यारी और बेहद अच्छी लगे,, मुझे बहुत अच्छा लगा क्यों कि मैं खुद अपने परिवार के साथ जद्दा समय देती हु,परिवार के साथ और कुछ मौके मिलते भी तो ऐसे ही कोई शादी, सगाई , जन्मदिन बहुत ऐसे फंक्शन होते हैं। जब हम सब लोग एक साथ आते है भगवान आपको ऐसे ही खुश रखे ।

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मुझे खुशी है कि आपको मेरी पोस्ट पसंद आई और आपने सही कहा कि इस तरह के आयोजन खुशी देते हैं और हमें परिवार और रिश्ते के साथ जोड़ते हैं। पढ़ने के लिए धन्यवाद और मेरी पोस्ट पर आते रहें। आपका दिन शुभ हो।