Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 116: My opinion on gender reveal during pregnancy.

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Hello friends!!

It's a new month and am excited already because this year is coming to an end already.

Do you accept gender reveal party? Back up your answers with facts

Well in my opinion I think knowing the gender of your baby before he or she comes it's good because it helps you prepare for the coming of your baby better but that reveal party is not my thing.

Why will I reveal the gender of my baby and have a party before the baby comes? What happens to me waiting until the Baby comes? Am just surprised how life is turning up.

I do not subscribe to gender reveal party at all. Therefore if you ask me I prefer to keep the secret until the child is born. Aside the world not been safe anymore, it's so much stress on the mother of the child already.

What if after having party and revealing the gender of your baby and when the baby finally comes, the gender changed? What will you do? I have seen that change happen before.

Do you think everyone should adopt this trend?

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No I don't think everyone should adopt this trend. Not everything that is trending is good. The fact that something is trending does not make it right.

If I don't accept this trend why should I allow others to adopt it? I don't know how this trend came about but one thing is certain, it is not right from my own point of view.

How safe is this trend considering the society we live in

In my own view, this trend is not safe at all. Africa especially Nigeria is known to be very fetish and diabolic.

Exposing the sex of your baby and having a party for it is unrealistic because and unsafe because of the kind of people we have. There has been stories of how mothers miscarriage their babies after doing such. There has also been stories of mothers or babies dying during child delivery. This is so sad .

The society we live in is not safe anymore and I can tell you for free that exposing your unborn child to the harshness of this society before hand is uncalled for and not good in my opinion.

Share your general thought on this topic, if possible your kind advice to people who are yet to join this trend

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I think I have already given my thoughts on this topic, the trend is not a good one. Not everything you see trending is worth doing at all. This one is a No No for me.

If you have not joined the trend I think you should not join oo, just stay away from this trend. Keep your life private and focus on the things that are necessary right now.