SEC-S30W6: People who motivate | Esha - My Friend

Greetings Everyone, This is SHOHANA From #Bangladesh

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Maturity and wisdom are a blessing, sometimes bestowed early in life. Esha was the girl I met with maturity and wisdom. She is not only a student but also a business woman at her early age. She is beauty with talent and smart mind. Our introduction was as usual we meet someone new. I met her in a bus when we were travelling to a same destination and later we became friends.

Usually when we women meet and our vibes match, we started sharing our personal life because the comfort zone creates automatic between us. She wanted to do the trip alone but her mom was over possessive about her safety so her mom also joined the journey. Esha wanted to be an independent girl as she already running her own bakery business and graduation study.

Esha and I became good friends and share contacts. I shared her my complicated relationship which was like build a house of cards. She listened my story and she told me that I'm dating a red flag that never gonna be part of my future.

Honestly I knew that too but sometimes we are helpless to leave and move one even when someone shows us fake love and affection. I'm always an emotional fool so it was easy for some to use me and throw me like a used tissue paper after using.

She motivate me to move on before it's too late and before the guy ditch me. Her motivation made me prepare for a brutal break up and I overcome the situation that Esha already predicted after listening my story. She is smart and realistic, not an emotional fool like me. She told me to be strong and independent instead trust on a man who was making me fool for years.

We live in the same city and we were connected to social media app so we were in touch almost all the time. When the break up happened I shared her and she told me to be strong and focus on work instead that guy who cheated me after giving hope for years. That guy got married and showed excuse that his family won't accept me as his bride. But when a man truly love, he fight for it, but I was just a toy, played and left when got something new and better to play.

She was beside me on my hardest time when I was dealing with the trauma and helped me a lot to overcome the situation. It's more than a year now and I still cry at midnight thinking that I'm cheated by so called promise maker, sweet words speaker with zero effort. It was a lesson indeed but it snatched away my seven years of life. It's hard for me now to trust someone again.

People whoever now try to be part of my life, I can't trust them and refuse them saying that I'm broken and can't accept anyone until I'll be able to trust again. Sometimes it feels the whole lifetime will pass but I'll never be able to trust again someone. The world is full of fake people with fake emotions and it's hard to find the real one.

Anyways, Esha doesn't trust anyone's work and she observe the pattern before giving access and that's the thing motivate me a lot even she is my junior. Seniors also can learn from juniors and she feels like friend not a junior to me, she treats me like same age and I loved that.

Would like to invite to join this initiative, my friends @oswaldocuarta @suboohi @ngoenyi

Thanks For Stopping By

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