Incredible India monthly contest of October | While making decisions
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Hello friend and I'll be sharing my thoughts in this great contest and I do hope you enjoy the article too.
Decisions are made in life to make life easier and better, plan for the future, set legacy and milestones to create records of your existence too. Decisions are crucial in life and should be taken into consideration as they could make you succeed or conversely champion your failure.
However, making decisions you put in mind the implications or consequences in the nearest future. It is proper prerequisite too. The effect it would have in your life is it's positive? A sacrifice to pay for greatness or is it a temporal emotional gratifier This would definitely be what you keep in mind before making those rash decisions.
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Indeed there are instances in which decisions are made for collective benefits of all, in my country there were lots of instances too. The great Nelson Mandela had to sacrifice years in prison for a just course which is his people to be free. He is definitely a great man in history books. Today South Africa has their independence from colonial masters and indeed one of the greatest country in the continent.
In Nigeria, a protest was held on October 20, about 3-4 years ago where the masses were agitating for a just course, military officials opened fire on innocent youths who were not armed too. This was a painful thing but their labor of love would not be overlooked for forgotten in a jiffy. That day is separate as public holiday annually to commemorate the death of the great ones.
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Deep Breathe Approach [DBA]:
Most times when you are provoked your emotions are stepped on, so therefore you just have to take a good deep breathe calming yourself down before acting up with the emotions making had and rash decisions on the long run.
Self Awareness:
When you are self aware of who you are, you get to know that you can avoid making these mistakes in decisions. Someone engaging in fight could lead to one or two people thoroughly getting injured. Therefore you must try to avoid it too.
Walking Away:
You do this during heated arguments not in shame but to show maturity in who is the more mature guy. You do this to walk away from the devil! This would be what you would live to be grateful for at a point in time in the latter part of your life.
Control Emotions:
Do not let your angry emotions be loud your sense of judgement. Therefore try in the most suitable way to tame your emotions. Do not act on impulse in anger but control the emotions and make the right decisions after a second thought too.



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