Incredible India Monthly Contest of January #2: Protective vs. Possessive!

The issue is how to look towards the two Ps.
Such to me seem these two words the Sun and the Storm.

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Protective is the Sun. It is reassuring and comforting. You have a guardian who takes care of your welfare, security and development. At the time when your life is in danger, they are by your side but when you are following your dreams, they are behind you. It is selfless.

Possessive is the Storm. It is restrictive and heavy. A jealous person is concerned with property. They want you to be safe, but they want you to belong to them, to belong to them and to have only them and they often sacrifice your freedom to get it. It is based on ego and control.

The Reasons behind Possessiveness.
Possessiveness does not imply that it is grounded on hate because it is, ironically, it is grounded on a place of heart-pulsing terror. Common triggers include:

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Insecurity: One may believe that he/she is not good enough and that anytime his/her partner opens his/her eyes to the world, he/she will receive a superior one.

Previous Trauma: In case an individual was cheated or dumped before, he or she can be too guarded of his current relationship to the extent that it does not slip away.

Lack of Trust: With no trust, a person will experience the urge to spy and control the environs of his/her partner to have him or her at ease.

Are There Two in Every Intimate Relation?
Yes, there they normally live in a spectrum. Any healthy relationship has an instinct to preserve. Protection however, in cases where the fear of loss is too high compared to the respect of the independence of the other individual, protection becomes possessive.

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Pros and Cons: a Comparative Analysis.
Attributes Protective (The Pro) Positive (The Con)
History Founded on Trust and Love. Built on Insecurity and Fear.
Consequent product You feel sure and safe. You feel stifled and drained.

Communication I have worried about your safety. "I don't want you going there."
Growth Challenges you to be yourself. divides you and friends and purpose.

The Final Verdict
The open hand is required to express the sincere love, but not a closed fist. Protecting is to love the life of the person, being possessive is to love your comfort more than their freedom. The control need must be traded with the desire to assist in the relationship sustenance process.

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