Gift..
Bismillahir Rahmanir Rahim
Assalamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh.
How are you all? I hope you are all well. I am also well, Alhamdulillah. I am back with you again, with another new post of mine. Let's start-
There are two types of relationships in the world. Some relationships are of blood or kinship and some relationships are of soul. They have different characteristics. However, there are some soul relationships that go beyond the relationship of kinship. Relationships are basically maintained, starting from checking in, when two people have a good time or visiting each other's homes. There are many relatives with whom we do not talk even after a long time. We do not even try to remember them, which increases the distance between us. If there is no communication from both sides, it is actually difficult to maintain a relationship. However, I am talking about something else. We often expect a lot from our relatives or older brothers and sisters. Sometimes they are fulfilled, and sometimes they are not fulfilled. This is the reality in the world.
Since childhood, I have not received much love from anyone except my parents, grandmother and aunt. My grandparents died before I was born, due to which I did not have the fortune to see them. I received more love from my grandmother. Since childhood, I used to hear that my aunt's sons get more love from their aunts, but in Amur's case, that is an exception. Anyway, my aunt's younger son lives abroad. Since he has been working for a long time, now he can come home whenever he wants. I told my aunt several times to tell my brother to bring me a laptop when he comes from abroad. But they do not give much importance to my words. Actually, as I said before, not all relationships are really good. They love me very much, but they do not give importance to my wishes. I told my father several times, but it did not work, so I do not tell him anymore. Since then, I have not asked my aunt for anything.
When my brother came from abroad for the first time, he brought me a perfume, a cream, and a headache balm. I kept them to protect the honor of the service. After that, he came home many times, but he didn't bring anything for us. It also happened that we don't even know when he came home. He came home again a few days ago. We didn't know that either. My father went to my aunt's house for something. Then I went and saw my brother coming. When he came home, he gave me a small bag to give to my father. My father brought it home and gave it to me and said that your aunt gave it to me, I don't want to take it. Actually, I understood what was in it. After my father told me several times, I took the bag and put it on the table. I told my father a little angrily, who told you to bring these.
Later, I didn't pay attention to them anymore. The day after yesterday, when I came to Dhaka, my father said, take the bag. Since I couldn't break my father's word, I took the bag. Then I showed him, inside was a soap, a perfume, a headache balm, and a powder. I laughed a little. Come on, I'm a small person, you gave me these. I brought them with me to keep my father's word. Honestly, if you expect to get from others, you will get nothing but trouble. Rather, give up hope, be well. I don't always expect anything from anyone, because every time I have expected, I have suffered. I brought the gifts and kept them in the room.
Finally, let me say one thing, we should all maintain good relationships. And the most important thing is to fulfill the needs of others towards us at least to some extent. If you can't fulfill them, talk to them and explain the matter. So that the relationship is better. However, after the post, no one will think that my relationship with my aunts is not bad, I have tried to tell you some realities. Everyone will be well and healthy. I will see you again with a new post of mine.







