The June contest #1 by sduttaskitchen: Criticism!
Hello my dear Steemians,
The word “criticism” has always something negative, maybe because it originate from critic and that means to tell something to others that points to area of improvement in a person or in something that is done by someone. When we are children we hear critic from our parents, from our teachers. Of course, it comes in a gentle, soft way and it is good because we need to learn that we need critic because this is something that we can not see from the site and some people do not feel comfortable to do critic to others even if the situation is so bad but the people do not like to be in the position of critic.
I completely agree that constructive criticism is useful for both children and adults. Of course, some people accept criticism well and other feel like it is done in negative way and only because the people to do critic do not think that the others can deal with their own stuff themselves.
The way how we share critic is also very important we need to find the right words and maybe some examples and take time to discuss and to listen the other side too, their reaction, maybe the arguments and explanation. If we are successful in transmission of our critic then the person will follow our advise and maybe even come later back to us to ask for feedback and in the future just to come to us for advise.
There are advantages of criticism:
with that the people should be able to see themselves in other light and with eyes of others
it will help to identify what is wrong that we are doing and how to improve it
even on each step of improvement we may return to the person who express critic and ask their advise if we are doing well
with correct reaction to critic we definitely gain better results and changes in our life
There are disadvantages of criticism:
depending on how you present that, it could be felt negative, like a way of teaching us and so that an adult person would feel like a child who needs to be taught
sometimes there is critic without guidance and advise how to do and what to do so that the best results will be achieved
both sides should be patient and listen each other, to let each other to speak up and to get a constructive decision
I am inviting following users for contest: @rumanaafroz, @monz122, @uzma4882
