FATE:WHAT WILL BE WILL BE OR IT WILL DEFINITELY HAPPEN

Hello my fellow steemians all my life i have been pondering about the thing called fate it is neither physical or spiritual.I know that fate is the development of events outside a person's control, regarded as predetermined by a supernatural power,but how does this work.I mean it is obvious that fate is beyond human control. So when something good happens to someone or a bad thing happen do we say it was meant to happen,that it is beyond his or her control.I mean is it the fate of some of us to be good and others bad or be extremely rich and some very poor. An article I read a while ago talks about the Greek mythology the three fates.

They were three goddesses who determined when every person was going to be born, how they would live and when and how they would die.These article says the three fates or goddess determines how a person's life unfold.whether a person is a nuisance in a community or an integral person in the community.The article also says that the fates even determines how a person dies.
The question here,is the future set in stone or fluid like, maybe it changes by the decisions we make throughout the course of our life journey,or is it that every decision we make brings us closer to our fate