If You Feel These Signs, Maybe Your LDR Story Is Eligible
Long Distance Relationship (LDR) may be the most difficult relationship that can be lived by each partner. The distance and time that separates as if making it more difficult for the relationship that you form with him. So, for people who are undergoing long-distance relationships like this, it takes more effort to survive.
In fact, many succeed through relationships despite being separated by distance. That is, the relationship they are trying to survive can even feel sweeter. But unfortunately not a few also have to swallow a bitter parting pill because they cannot survive.
When you feel these signs in your relationship, then you must be encouraged.
- when you feel these signs in your relationship, then you must be encouraged.
You feel that he no longer feels comfortable with you like he did before. He prefers to spend time alone or with friends. If you usually call every day, until one of you sleeps, then your phone doesn't ring as often. He is happier to establish relationships with other people, than you who are far away. - If the meeting is something that is awaited, he has never felt it at all
Every couple who underwent LDR, of course the meeting was something that was eagerly awaited. But somehow you feel he is not so passionate and longs for a meeting as you always feel. There was even no initiative from him to prepare when meeting. He doesn't want to come to you. Yes, a sign that shows that he doesn't want to be with you. - Give the news as you please, as if it is not important anymore
If at the beginning of the relationship giving news is something you don't need to ask for, now that habit is no longer there. Even when you ask the news, he doesn't immediately let you know. He replies as he pleases, whenever he wants. That indicates that not worrying about you is not important anymore. - When thinking about a partner, there is a feeling of being burdened by this long distance relationship.
One of you begins to feel that this long distance relationship only adds to the burden. Instead of getting closer, this distance only makes your mind feel heavier. Every time you think of a partner, your heart feels uncomfortable and your mind seems to be crowded. Maybe this is a sign that you or your partner is unable to undergo a relationship that is separated by distance and time.
If only you are trying in this relationship, then there will be no end that you have been doing so far. There is no hope of having a future with him. Therefore, prepare your heart and sincerity. God is showing you that he is not the best answer for all your prayers.