How to deal with people who hate you

How to deal with people who hate you

We often feel that people around us dislike us and have no reason for us. We find ourselves feeling tense and uneasy when we are near them, and the same is true for them. We find them behaving strangely and miserably when we are present, in a modern way and in their body language. It may be just a feeling or fear we feel within ourselves, or it may be just a misunderstanding between the two parties, so we have to know how to deal with these people so we can move forward in our lives.

Dealing with people who hate you

The handling way

• He does not blame himself or look for the reason for his hatred for him, so he has to trust himself and not give others the opportunity to influence him or create doubt within him.

• Ignoring spiteful and unpleasant comments, although it is difficult to do so, the person must try to ignore them and convey a message to these people that he does not care what they feel.

• To talk with the hateful about the feelings they feel; Ignorance will not help a person in many cases, he may be forced to talk to them for the necessities of work or social life, so he has to talk to them to help them overcome their hatred.

• Reducing the person to his negative interactions with the hateful; if he can change the behaviors or things that make others hate him for it will overcome many obstacles and steps to deal with them.

• Change the person to the place where he usually sits or the way he goes to work to avoid seeing the hates or even dealing with them in one form or another.
  

Help people to overcome their hatred

• Raising from the hateful and hateful; Whatever the negative people to the person to try to maintain the positive, by putting practical examples for them how to deal and talk with others.

• Communicating with them about personal conflicts. Some people feel they are the only ones who have negative experiences in life. Talking about their negative and painful experiences, these people may feel empathetic and improve their relationships.

• Helping those who hate to improve themselves. The sense of hate may come from internal fear or insecurity, so if the helpers are helped to overcome this feeling they may become better people.

• The person spoke with them openly and transparently about the reasons that lead them to act with hostility and hatred of the direction, it may be just a misunderstanding by them or before the person himself, so he has to sit with them and talk to them.

By Arij Chichani