To your grandma and grand-grandma this whole idea that a good man brings ease into your life would be as obvious as washing up after a good poop.

They were interested in bigger better things, like how can they bring ease and impossibly addictive love into the man's life themselves, so that he stays forever and never strays. Because men do stray, unless you manage them properly.

Today's young woman does not think about things like this, because she's been taught to only think about herself and what she "deserves" from men. Basically, such women have been robbed of femininity, and don't even know it.