Sense of belongingness( THE JOY, HAPINESS AND FUN OF MOTHERHOOD)
I always wondered on how difficult and cumbersome motherhood could be, thus caring unconditionally for your baby. And then I realized it goes beyond our own children to any child who needs your help at a particular time
- giving a helping hand to a child who fell down at the playground, I guess you have just remembered the day you did that
- consoling a child who’s crying because he or she has finished his or her ice cream and has seen the friends still licking theirs
- smiling at a baby who’s with his or her mum at the shopping mall, restaurant, play ground or in a bus. The loveliest thing about this is that the child will smile back at you
- helping a child who twisted his or her leg whilst playing and giving him or her hope that the pain is just for a while and he or she will be well soon
All these gestures build the trust, confidence and love in these children and gradually makes them better individuals in future.
Also not forgetting our charming and lovely pets who always makes our moments with them a cheerful one
*That is
- Feeding it or them
- Playing with it or them
- Talking to it or them whenever we are bored or excited about an issue
4.Telling them our problems verbally or discovering there’s a problem from our silence and getting response to those problems from their facial expressing. - taking it or them for regular checkup at the veterinary hospitals
All these make me know that there is more to motherhood as one becomes a mother the moment you lend a helping hand to any child or pet that needed it.
I remember how I helped a family to get their dog who got lost sometime ago. This happened one hot afternoon while walking towards my home I noticed a dog was wandering around the neighborhood and could not find its owner but I have been seeing it in front of a particular house on several occasions and so I alerted its owner and the dog was so happy to finally go back home.
What I have discovered is that at some point in one’s life you would need a helping hand to prevent some situations or conditions from occurring no matter our age or gender. Children and animals being so innocent and vulnerable to life’s adventures any little help given to them is golden. And it doesn’t matter about your gender before being part of the big association “MOTHERHOOD” Putting a smile on your child, someone else child or your pet should be a number one priority and trust me #itsfundoingthat
Have you ever thought or felt about how natural and wonderful animals take care of their offspring’s? It’s so beautiful. Every animal becomes cautious when protecting their younger ones, and they give their all in all. Even though we have all what is takes to give a helping hand to children and our pets but I would argue on the fact that we need to sometimes learn from animals both wild and domestic on how they protect their younger ones and learn some lesson from them, through documentaries or visiting them in the zoo or their homes.
"PASSION" has always been their hall mark, which means they would rather die than letting something happen to their babies. This builds a very strong bond between these animals and likewise human beings
/No matter our age, ability or disability we can still be a mother to that boy, girl or animal who needed our help for their survival. How would you feel if you are able to save a neighbors’ dog who nearly got hit down by a car in your neighborhood, relieved right? Then that made you a mother to that dog at that moment although its real adopters or caretakers are there and loves it a lot./
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Sex has never been a barrier in motherhood because being a male or female makes you a potential mother and so let us all encourage one another to be part of this big association.
This piece has appropriately been referenced for plagiarism sake
No one can really phanthom what mothers can do. Mothers are the best gift we are presented with even befor we get to earth.
And you ladies have been given the heart to make motherhood sweet
Yeah, that is truly a gift from God, I must confess @anaman
A sense of belongingness is a powerful tool which binds a family,group,association, etc together. Awesome post with quality content. @mavisxyz
@emmanuelacheamp that's the spirit, the best gift life could offer us as human is being part of a family or organization that shapes our lives and makes us better individuals in the sense that the people we associate our self with have greater influence in our lives and getting good people around you and directing you on each step that you take determines your future and the future of your unborn generation.
If parents lives a legacy for their children, it becomes an asset for them to start life with whatever package that was given to them. And these eases them from too many pressures in life and makes life worth living for.