Why are my friends not excited to have me over at their houses? 🤔
It's always fun and exciting when you get to meet your friends at their condos to have a beautiful time together but sometimes, their attitude towards you changes and you might wonder why. Here are some of the reasons:
You come visiting unannounced. It's most likely that anytime you feel like going over to your friends apartment, you do so without prompting them first via calls or messages
and honestly, no one likes a pest as a friend.You never say anything nice about their apartment. The first thing that comes out from your mouth are complaints. Perhaps, you meet the house in disarray, the way you pass across your comments put your friends off. No one likes a nag as a friend. Why your friends aren't excited to have you over at their houses?
You always come expecting free stuff. Each time you go visiting, your hands and tummy are empty and yet, you expect them to fill it up when you are leaving. Nobody likes a draining friend.
You've got an Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. Each time you tell your friend you're coming over, he/she feels as though you've laid a burden on them. They'll have to do a thorough sanitation and proper fixing even when they don't feel like. Not everyone craves perfection like you do.
You are a broadcaster of information. Your intentions may be good but your friend sees you in a different light. He/She feels that whatever you hear or see in their apartment would be broadcasted to the whole world hence, they lose interest in you coming over.
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