Why don't I have any luck getting a woman? (for men)
You never have luck with women because you think looks and popularity gets the girl. Forget what you think you know, throw all the bullshit out the window that your friends have told you and start thinking for yourself for a moment :)
People say bad guys get women: They do, but that’s because they haven’t learned to tell the difference yet between a guy that will treat them like shit and a guy that will stand up for himself. Nothing has women more excited than a guy that’s confident enough to stand up and tell them ‘No’ — and yes, that can be the President of the United States or the hobo down the street.
I’ve heard a lot of guys say popularity wins the girl but that’s bullshit. Popularity makes the girls aware of you but nothing will have you being her best bosom buddy more than being an open, talkative guy. In my experience women like a bit of mystery, women don’t want you to be available all the time — they want you to be kicking a ball around with your mates and too busy to see her on Sunday, so what about Monday?
Here’s the lowdown.
Be confident - don’t treat her like shit. You don’t need to be a douchebag to know what you want, and if that means telling her no on ocassion then so be it. Women hate a pushover.
Be unavailable and mysterious - by that I mean have hobbies. Men that stay by the phone all day waiting for a call from a potential date turns off women faster than a lightswitch. Have a life, you can be having fun whilst seeking a potential partner.
Listen to her - If you listen to her properly then that will be an advantage over most men. Just don’t sit and listen to her all day and night, that’s what her mates are for. If you want to be more than friends don’t act like one
Display your sexual attraction - yeah, you like the way her legs look in that dress - tell her. Just don’t be fucking creepy about it dude.
Be emotionally available - tell them stuff, secret stuff, about you. Not too much!! That’s for long term relationships.
Don’t be negative - no she doesn’t want to hear about your 2 year sex dry spell, or your ex who was a bitch. She’d rather hear about something else
When talking to her, zone everyone else out - she is the centre of your universe when you’re talking to her. Nothing gives a woman a better hint than when you’re only focusing on her.
Be yourself! - yeah, if you can’t lift twice your weight don’t tell her that
And with these you'll be safely winging your way to knowing more about women :)
My fiancée was first aroused when I shared with her my passion for the intricacies of late 19th Century Paraguayan public health policies. And when I showed her my collection of Tanna Tuvan philatelic treatises, she swooned.
Hi @raymondspeaks gems. Some very practical tips. I'm going to use them. ;)
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Thank you :)
That is really a good piece of dating advice.
You're speaking the truth man. I'm studying human relationships for a long time and everything you've talked about it's fucking true and real. The best advice someone could get, I hope it's going to reach more people.
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Yeah its how you should be as a man. Dont be needy always have something to do. Girls need a leader, they have thoughts like nodes in blockchain PLUS with atomic swap function ahahahaha. So you got to be that guy who can make decision and lead her. Be as solid as bitcoin leading all the altcoins. Lolz. But seriously my advice should work haha.
Thank you!! Yes, it is, because I've been through it all haha!!
Nice tips, thank's!!
This can be for women too.
It can, yup! A lot of holistic applications can be applied to either gender :)
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When one is individualistic enough, having a life partner is more of a preference rather than a need, and since we seek like-minds it'll be the same for them, afterwards all a couple needs is patience, tolerance and communication.
In hindsight, those are some really neat tips , thanks!
Thank you :)
When you are young you look for those who stand out, that's correct. From my personal experience those guys have some sort of complex and they are not what they show to the world. When you have enough of that kind, you start to notice that those shy, not being loud have more to tell and give. Just it's matter of time, person, and things you learn or don't. I believe there is no magic recipe to men women relations, maybe that one you wrote is only true, just be yourself :)
Nothing could be more true than this article. Kudos.