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In last post we talked about What Is Invisible Fences. If you don't read it click here to read it. In today's topic we will discuss about how INVISIBLE FENCES stopping us.


Let's begin,

We know that, As we grow up we adopt negative thinking, negative beliefs, false assumptions and sabotaging fears from the world around us. These become our INVISIBLE FENCES.

How Invisible Fences Stopping Us ?

The root cause of all INVISIBLE FENCES is Negative Thinking.

Now, we know How Negative Thinking ruin our lives.

Let's take an example to understand it,

There was a boy named David. He belonged to a middle class family and his father was doing job in cooperate company. David don't like to stay in middle class family he want to become rich so he think how i can earn more money to make my family's condition better ? So he thought to start a business. He told his father about doing this.

But his father told him No. Because his father said business is for rich people and we are not rich. His father told him someone who try to do business in their family he lost everything and now he is in debt still. So he father told him get a degree and do job in big company and survive it the only option for them.

This thought go inside David's mind and he became negative about starting business and start Negative Thinking and he started thinking that "If i will become fail in business what happened to my family ? What if my business doesn't work ? What if i lost everything ?

By constant negative thinking he created a negative mindset for business and he become fearer about business and he never take any action for his dream.

The INVISIBLE FENCES of not become successful in business stoppped David to do business and than David start job as his father say and always stay in middle class.

This was story of David who want to something new but because of this invisible fences he don't do anything.

That's how Invisible Fences stopping us in our life. Like our Fear What People Will Say ? It is one of the biggest Fear in the world that stopping so many people in life from doing what they want to do and achieving success in their life. It is also a Invisible Fence.

May be David become successful if he tried to do but this Invisible Fence stopped him. which were not real

So the question is,

Why Invisible Fences become so real ?

There is a cycle which make Invisible Fences so real and stop us.

In above picture the cycle we see it is main cycle which makes people sucessful or failure in their life. So if you understand,** you can use this to break your invisible fences and create a good successful life.**

In David's exammple we see that negative thinking creates negative emotions which made negative mindset and lead him to no taking action stage and it lead him to no result or bad result and it makes negative thinking strong and this cycle stay continue. That's why our Invisible Fences become so Real and become stronger

That's why we become fail in our life by our invisible fences

In next post i will explain you how to overcome from our Invisible Fences

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