Excellent post, my friend and I like the expression "Love your neighbor as yourself." To love means to coexist, co-feel and co-suffer to another as to oneself. If there is love for one's neighbor, then I feel heartache when I learn that someone has grief. And all the time, every day and every hour. It is easier to mobilize once with a terrible grief, grief .., but always, daily to be sensitive to the life and condition of the neighbor, the one who is next to - is incredibly difficult.
Because love is a gift of God. It is not in our power. We can only have the intention to love, but the Lord helps in this. Thank you @gavvet