THE PLAN OF LIFE: IT IS NOT REAL, WHEN YOU BASE IT IN THE APPROVAL OF OTHERS

This challenge is a guideline to establish a complete project for the evolutionary development of your existence, with the idea that you are prepared for the complexities and challenges of your existence as an independent human being and thus be able to choose and experimental the evolutionary of your full life, we have to understand that the greatest personal failure we suffer is formed by the difference between what we can do and be, and what we really did and could be. NOW MY FRIENDS OF LIFE, we all make decisions as we see and conditioned by time, in my opinion, there are three (3) errors that are very common to us;

Every decision has an emotional impact whether it is good or bad. Our decisions must not be rushed or pressured by third parties, we must make them having a stable or non-adverse emotional frame or state; It will be difficult for us to make a personal decision pleasing others to the detriment of your personal satisfaction, this we will regret in the future. We have to internalize that our situation is the sum of the choice of decisions of the past, as we will find tomorrow and the following years should be the result of our choice. If we accept this, we will recognize that we have control over the largest percentage of our life.

From my own experience, I show you that in order to develop independence, being alone is necessary, it is a sole source, we must live independently without having to be surrounded by other people; this allows us to choose how we can spend our time and more important than everything with whom we want to spend our universe of time, when we do not learn to be alone, we move away, we discard the key to becoming an independent being, the condition of being alone It reinforces the ability to SELF-EVALUATE us, to feel good without people around at all times, it shows us that we can survive and this is individual strength. The disadvantage of not being independent, my life friends, is that we lose opportunities, but we manage to go out and enjoy activities alone, these activities will continue on their way, this is a disturbance, expecting company to do or achieve what we want is where we lose many great experiences of life, we can not count on another person to achieve and start living.

My friends, no more; we are many who are subjected to a true sense of guilt in our lives, there will always be someone who issues a message pointing or labeling you that you have become a bad person because of something you decided or chose to be or live. You are a natural system that you breathe, you talk, you walk, you feel, you react with a load of energy that gives you the right to choose your life scheme, there is no guilt in that, I would exist if you do not deside at the moment, "because I did not , it would be better ".GOD, indicated: we are beings made in his likeness and free will.

My intention is not to INDICATE you, as you should do your life, it is your choice, but we must learn to make and choose decisions in the direction of our life, execrate guilt as a concern for what we decide to be or do and not disable in our cycle of existence as a consequence of others, that in the end, are critical of why you are what you came to BE. (Your achievements).

allow myself to transcribe this excellent message from the writer:

Ralph Waldo "Men grind and grind in the mill of an Axiom and the only thing that comes out is what was put there, but at the very moment that they abandon the tradition for a spontaneous thought, then poetry, ingenuity, hope, virtue , the illustrative anecdote everything rushes to its aid ".

GREAT THOUGHT Keep doing it in the same way and you will always get the same result, you will remain the same, change, do it differently and throw out the usual and truthful window that the world will be yours, you can use it as creatively as you want and as you choose it and decide to do it