Countdown to 14th. Be a little different this time.

February often ponders over why people care so much about just one out of her children.

I spoke with her few hours ago and she seemed to be so much upset about the issue in debate "Valentine".
Her agitation was that the rest of her offsprings are bitterly complaining that they aren't getting human affections as it ought to be. And why has 14 be the only benefactor of it?

We had a round section with the offsprings present except "14".
I could see the bitterness and illusion written over all of them. The feeling that they're being treated unfairly by us was spurted out by "13" and that he had appeared unlucky in the sight of humans.

Few minutes later, there were noises and yellings coming from the outerspace of the room, and when i went to check, it was a mob consisting of every days of the months. I only noticed the loudest cry of Dec. 25 rolling and screaming, saying "Even that Jesus christ was born on me, people don't show me such love as that of "Feb. 14". It's unfair and it must stop.

The contest went on for hours and we eventually resolved everyone should go back home and i'll speak to humans.

Now to all humans.

Here are my questions,

• What is so special about Feb.14 that is not to others?

• Why are you try to be partial on this day?

Maybe i'm wrong to put the questions that way, but i noticed the allegations aren't that true about humans.
We tend to show love only on Feb.14 . Meanwhile, it is also partial as we do this only to one person who is no one other than a girl, a babe, a boy or females in particular.

Ok,now let's find out.

From history, Valentine is a symbol of of love which is to exist between majorly two people. These two persons must be opposite sex as the history had it. And the kind of love it talks about is "Agape Love" which means expressing love to someone you deeply love(opposite sex) just the way Christ love us.

I found a[link] where you can can read more.

Unfortunately, VALENTINE has become a general celebration for hurting the other person and where the love that is to be expressed becomes illusion.

Valentine should be a season of revitalising one's feeling of love and affection for the other person which include couples, engaged couples, and even singles. There are hundreds of ways you can express your love - gifts, time, outings, etc. It is important for you to understand what makes your partner or lover happy most and try to improve on it, in a romantic and amazing way. Don't forget these are not only necessary on Feb. 14 but all time.

Wrong impression

Women are often found in this category. Though not all but most if not all are guilty of it.

• Why do you as a woman, think you are the only party that deserves affections and say gifts, time and so on?
  You would agree with me that men have emotional needs too which should be met not by anything but You.

This applies to both parties in love and not one side.

Love is reciprocal - give and take.

For valentine to be effective, both parties in love must understand this principle. You do not have to behead yourself to express your love to other person. Don't forget you need be in love indeed to be able to show it indeed. Otherwise it becomes pain in your heart and ache that lasts a time.

Think about what he/she deserves, go for it. And if it takes you to move extra miles to make 'em happy, it worth it.

HAPPY VALENTINE IN ADVANCE

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