Is he ever right for trying to force himself on you?

in #love7 years ago

The relationship between a man and a woman is dynamic and complex. There is no clear-cut strategy of dealing with guys. It is more or less an issue of discretion. However, certain issues that I have come in contact with these days beggars the question that is it ever justifiable for a guy to try to force himself on a girl?
A story was told of a guy who had been asking a girl out and she kept posting him in the name of having a boyfriend. They went out one day to hang out and afterward, she followed him to his house where he began demanding sex. She turned him down then he got a knife and stabbed her over and over. Fortunately, she survived but the incident remains etched in her memory.
As harrowing as this story is, there are people of the opinion that the girl brought it on herself. Wetin carry her go? In as much as it may seem callous, there is an element of truth in this question.
A guy has been pestering you; that obviously means he is attracted to you so being alone with him in private when you know you don’t have an intention of giving in to him is like dangling meat in front of a lion. This is not to say a lady shouldn’t hang out with male friends but be discerning and sensitive to what each expects from you. Don’t take guy’s self-control for granted or go about giving mixed signals.
In the case of this story, after they spent time together in public, they could have simply said their goodbyes. On the other hand, men are not beasts so just because a girl denies you sex does not mean you should become a savage. A guy should never force himself on a girl, no matter what.