Well, thank you for expressing and telling the whole Steemit community about your first date.

That was very bold of you.

Now, to answer your​ questions (my opinion);

Should I have gone in for the first kiss on the first date, or is that something that should always wait until a second or third date? When I was in the dating scene​ before I got married I did not kiss on the first date, and if anything I would have done the same thing she did. This is not a bad thing, it's​ actually a GREAT thing. This type of reaction shows you that she has respect for herself and she is not fast/in a hurry to take that step. She seems like the type of women that wants to get to know you first.

For the women out there, do you want to be kissed on the first date if you are feeling good chemistry​? Good chemistry or not if you want to kiss her kiss her on the cheek or waiting is ALWAYS good.

I hope this helps you with y'alls next dates to come.
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